4/ …“Family Report Writers are exempt from having biases & are totally objective”
Except that the research demonstrates that they do. And that personal beliefs are the single biggest predictor of whether a child will have contact with an abusive parent.@TamePunk@ncdvtmh
5/ Studies show that family report writers often view victims of violence as unreliable, poor parents, liars, ‘crazy’ & ‘unstable’. And even acts such as providing a child a mobile can be interpreted can be seen as being vexatious & alienating. @kellyanntansley@kelly_pages
6/..Family Report Writers always have the relevant skill set to make decisions in the best interest of the child”
A survey of psychiatrists showed almost half had less than 2 hrs of family violence training
7/ ..And there is more evidence that the many available trainings do nothing to change outcomes, then there is evidence that it does ‘something’
Then there’s the belief..
8/ that Family Report Writers always act in the best interest of the child.”
Except that they really don’t.
In fact studies shows the majority are very pro-contact, regardless of whether there’s allegations of abuse. Reflecting a personal belief that the right to contact trumps
10/
“Family reporters can be left alone to ensure they have up-to-date training or CPD without any oversight from a regulatory body”.
Except that, studies have reported that the clinicians themselves often don’t think family violence is relevant.
So why would they choose ..
11/ to upskill in their understanding of family violence , abuse and trauma…
If their own belief is that family violence is not relevant now that there is a “separation” ?
12/ Which is yet another myth to dispel …
The violence doesn’t stop here.
The truth is that abuse is very likely to continue unchanged …Or escalate.
Abuse of the mother is statistically likely to go hand-in-hand with abuse of the child @SaxonAdair .#DomesticViolence
14/ These are cultural and social beliefs that need to change.
Training won’t help if we do not address the core beliefs & social attitudes that form the foundation of a system that actively mistreats survivors of family & sexual abuse. @georgiedent@BrittHiggins_@nikhilautar1
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"The idea that a police officer or firefighter, who do great jobs, can access that support but the witnesses, the people who suffer directly don't, that shocked me,"
1/ My heart is broken. Tonight I found out my friends cancer has returned. Could have caught it earlier, except they cancelled his biopsy, because of COVID. This is what living wt COVID looks like. This is what living in a 1st world country looks like, where govt fails to ensure
2/ adequate vaccine supply, fails to educate its people about the importance of vaccines, a govt that utterly fails at gaining the respect of its people by treating them respectfully & honestly.
3/ a government that sees no value in the truth. No value in accurate & frank answers. No value in acknowledging what they know & don’t know. This is what the loss of a friend, a son, a brother looks like
1/ IMPORTANT THREAD/ TRIGGER Warning- child sexual abuse
What happens when a Judge in the Family Law Court hears a contested allegation of child sexual abuse?? (i.e most of them)
The results of this research are HORRIFIC doi.org/10.1002/ajs4.1…@NataliePage31
As a POC -this is offensive - “already-empowered white middle class women”? Do we really want to rate women’s suffering like this? Abused white women shouldn’t be disregarded in this conversation. Empowered is not a word I would use for anyone experiencing FDV or sexual violence
Some of my white middle-class employed patients have experienced strangulation, brain-damage, electrocution, rape as infants, tied up for days, whipped, held under water, multiple fractures- amongst many other types of trauma. It’s not OK to disregard this entire population.
When a human body is treated this way - it doesn’t matter what colour her skin is. The trauma reaction is biological and does not discriminate.
2/ He used his position & influence to deliberately put kids into abusers homes
Even when med reports, police reports, teachers reports corroborated the abuse, Gardners view the mother ‘made it up’ would override those reports
For example …@DLulabele@jessradio@GeraldineBilst1
3/ There was one woman whom Gardner reported to the court to be lying about her abuse.
Shortly afterwards her husband SHOT her dead.
He did not repent about this - but instead defended the murderer
Saying HER behaviour made HIM psychotic. @MFWitches@SistersinlawAu@davtw2
Calling her 45 times whilst she’s at work, then repeatedly calling her boss when she doesn’t answer, so frequently that she loses her job ..that…that will no longer be a legal behaviour.