1/ IMPORTANT THREAD/ TRIGGER Warning- child sexual abuse
What happens when a Judge in the Family Law Court hears a contested allegation of child sexual abuse?? (i.e most of them)
The results of this research are HORRIFIC doi.org/10.1002/ajs4.1…@NataliePage31
5/ 17% of these children were moved from the protective parent and into the alleged perpetrators custody.
6/ These Judges didn’t even think these women reporting the abuse were lying - no, 50% of the time they believed they were just ‘Genuinely Mistaken’
Yes. ‘Mistaken’.
7/ One of the worst things - Even when there was no contesting of the allegations, the Judges still expressed complete disbelief 23% of the time!
8/ Even in uncontested cases there were times the Judges would award custody to the perpetrator, either completely or partially
9/ these results are shocking and completely reflect the advice my patients have been given by lawyers when they are trying to leave
‘don’t tell the court about the abuse - because they won’t believe you and you might lose custody altogether ‘
10/ Finding out their child is being abused is one of the main reasons women will leave abusive rships. This is WHY women tell the court about the abuse. It is not because they are ‘mistaken’ it is not because they want to ‘punish’ the father. It’s because…
As a POC -this is offensive - “already-empowered white middle class women”? Do we really want to rate women’s suffering like this? Abused white women shouldn’t be disregarded in this conversation. Empowered is not a word I would use for anyone experiencing FDV or sexual violence
Some of my white middle-class employed patients have experienced strangulation, brain-damage, electrocution, rape as infants, tied up for days, whipped, held under water, multiple fractures- amongst many other types of trauma. It’s not OK to disregard this entire population.
When a human body is treated this way - it doesn’t matter what colour her skin is. The trauma reaction is biological and does not discriminate.
2/ He used his position & influence to deliberately put kids into abusers homes
Even when med reports, police reports, teachers reports corroborated the abuse, Gardners view the mother ‘made it up’ would override those reports
For example …@DLulabele@jessradio@GeraldineBilst1
3/ There was one woman whom Gardner reported to the court to be lying about her abuse.
Shortly afterwards her husband SHOT her dead.
He did not repent about this - but instead defended the murderer
Saying HER behaviour made HIM psychotic. @MFWitches@SistersinlawAu@davtw2
Calling her 45 times whilst she’s at work, then repeatedly calling her boss when she doesn’t answer, so frequently that she loses her job ..that…that will no longer be a legal behaviour.
***Thread ***Absolutely and utterly unsurprising, Remembering that in 2016 the NSW Sentencing Council at the time - consisting of 12 male and 3 female members found ‘no problem with the sentencing of DV offenders’ despite the disturbing facts that...
Mon night on @TheFeedSBS NSW Police Officer McDermott said he respected my ‘opinion’ but I needed to know that @nswpolice WERE taking action on the vast majority of cases reported, that they WERE providing protection to ‘victims’, that they were WINNING & should be acknowledged
2/ for getting the ‘vast majority’ right. He said @nswpolice ARE supporting ‘our victims’
He said if the ‘narrative gets out’ that police are giving a bad service then ‘who will go to the police’?
I didn’t get the opportunity to reply to this misinformation at the time so ...
3/ firstly 80% of assaults are not reported at all-the ones that are the police see are the worst ones. Usually cases with the most evidence. Yet somehow, of the 32K reported, only 15K resulted in a charge. #notwinning#auspol#EnoughIsEnough
1/ I am a WOC & I advocate for Coercive control laws. The systemic racial & misogynistic injustices in this system are abhorrent. Current laws have been written by white men, these laws will be different in that they reflect the experiences of women. We need to draw a clear line
2/ between wanting to abolish the entire criminal justice system (abolitionism) & wanting to deny criminalising this one specific behaviour. None of the abolitionists have argued that CC is dangerous. The fight should remain with the oppressive system - not the women that seek to
3/ highlighting the problems with current laws that are written by men to protect men. There are no specific Domestic Violence laws. These will be the first ones that acknowledge the unique nature of violence against women in the home. Some women will always need to draw on a