What hurts men more, promiscuity or porn consumption?
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When we are discussing promiscuity versus porn, we must speak about damage to men and women together. What is good for men is good for women and what is good for women is good for men. Therefore, while one may be more damaging to one, we must take them both together.
Why should we care about women in our tribe? Because we are framed men and that means we are responsible for all women. All women in reality are our responsibility. Many immature and weak men will deny or reject this. Redpill gurus refuse this grand and global responsibility.
Let us discuss the damage to each gender. Porn damages a man by creating a passive spirit that is a retreat into fantasy. But what do most Redpill guys encourage men to do in reality? Mindless seed propagation. They want men to escape from one fantasy by jumping into another.
And what is worse for men, being stagnant with seed or mindless spreading seed? Let us discuss who is being harmed by porn. The porn actors and the observer. Which would mean psychological damage to the female performer and stagnant damage to many men who view it.
A single whore (or few) performs, and many men become frozen. This is the damage from porn. But let us now discuss the damage of promiscuity. A man who is promiscuous damages a woman's psychology and creates a whore. This woman becomes harder to frame for the next man.
This damaged woman since she has emotional damage will become less faithful from her sexual psychological conditioning. This spreads chaos as families become disrupted from marital disloyalties and feared commitments. These women are groomed to cuck weak men they pair with.
While a man hurts himself while viewing porn (And a few whores by encouragement) A promiscuous man creates whores for other men to deal with. One is reaping fire mainly onto himself while the other spreads fire around his tribe.
Now think. What is worse? A few designated prostitutes in a tribe that satisfy desperate men or a promiscuous man who encourages all women to become prostitutes by passing them around with other promiscuous men.
Both are damaging to men, but promiscuity is more damaging to men because more women become damaged which passes to the next man compared to an outlet for male desperation through a few designated prostitutes.
Neither is moral but promiscuity creates more chaos by making more whores in the tribe. And we all have to live in the tribe with these damaged women by irresponsible men. This thread is not a moral lashing as I do not profess perfection but rather rational discourse on actions.
This thread was a sampling of my upcoming book on God which will be out sometime next year.
Before we go into discussion in the topic. Let us define romance. Romance is to inspire a deep feeling in a woman in the form of "Love" or high emotion which pulls her into sexual orbit. That is why we separate a romantic relationship from friendships. Sex and high emotion.
Many men will think that my message of frame is too rigid, and that softness brings greater benefit to a relationship with a woman. What benefit? Emotional attachment and sexual arousal. But does a romantic guy inspire those two elements better than a framed man?
Before we go into discussion on male confession to a woman, we must discuss what guilt means. A man with a guilty conscience is a man in doubt of how his behavior is aligning with his identity. And now just how he perceives himself but how those in authority perceive him.
Guilt under authority makes a person doubt themself. And what is the authority? It is whatever a man deems as moral authority above. It can be nation, tribe, church or any group where shame would make an individual doubt himself.
A woman is ruled by dual emotion each month. She is ruled by sexual confidence one half and emotional vulnerability the next. This creates a feeling of certainty in her spirit as she must battle against her own perception.
This irrational feeling of self is like a woman head is spinning. And from this spinning and vulnerable state she will look to others to stabilize herself. A woman left spinning alone goes mad and sinks in her own doubt.
A woman does not want to listen to a man, she wants to talk.
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Unframed men believe in the lie of equality in romance and view their women as friends. They laugh, cry and share their every thought with their women. In their minds they view this as a connection that enhances the relationship. Is this correct?
Does sharing thoughts strengthen the relationship? No. When a man is talking to his woman, she will be losing respect for him the more he speaks. Why? Because speech is validation seeking behavior.
Before we go into how to lower emotion. Let us discuss why we would want to lower emotion in the body. Many women and feminized men think emotions are positive and that "Getting in touch" with emotion is healthy. Is that true? Let us discuss.
What is the positive that can be had by becoming emotional about something? The Wall Speaks was written from an emotional place because the empathy for suffering of fatherless men inspired me. When emotion moves us to act is a positive.