Before we go into discussion in the topic. Let us define romance. Romance is to inspire a deep feeling in a woman in the form of "Love" or high emotion which pulls her into sexual orbit. That is why we separate a romantic relationship from friendships. Sex and high emotion.
Many men will think that my message of frame is too rigid, and that softness brings greater benefit to a relationship with a woman. What benefit? Emotional attachment and sexual arousal. But does a romantic guy inspire those two elements better than a framed man?
Let us break romance into two parts. We either qualify to someone above or inspire qualification to someone below. "Romantic nice guys" get confused with this since they view relationships for women with a false perception of equality. There is no equality. In nature or romance
With that in mind, romance is either an act of supplication to someone above from fear of loss or an act of appreciation to someone below. When a man makes romance a constant, he is in supplication mode and subconsciously triggers a woman to view herself above him
When a man makes romantic gestures/affection a rarity is telling the woman that he is not in fear of her loss but rather is bestowing upon her a rare gift of appreciation. This rarity makes the act seem much larger in her mind and creates greater emotion.
Women encourage men to be romantic guys because it lowers them into a fearful servant mode where they only think of pleasing the elevated woman. A woman encourages men to be of service because having a servant to need is always tempting. To deny this is delusion.
This is one reason that women only encourage men to be romantic which primes them for easy control. Romantic guys are in the feminine frame of authority and are always chasing a woman's qualification which only deflates her arousal/emotion.
Why? Because a woman's sexual arousal comes from male dominance, not male submission. And a man who qualifies to a woman, puts himself into subjection to her. When a man holds frame, puts a woman in qualification mode to him.
Is romance completely wrong? It can do more harm than good but rare romance can heighten feelings like a boss who tells his employee a rare "Good job" -- As opposed to a boss who tells his employee "Good job" every day.
This is why "Romantic guys" who encourage young men to be romantics are betraying the power of their masculine brotherhood. In a way, they are selling their brothers into slavery to women. A great disservice and irresponsible in our fatherless era.
These romantic guys have learned to love their chains and so they encourage other men to love them. Don't listen to these romantic fools. Bear strong frame. Show little emotion. If you want, give a woman rare affection which increases her feelings/arousal. Be wise and stay free.
What hurts men more, promiscuity or porn consumption?
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When we are discussing promiscuity versus porn, we must speak about damage to men and women together. What is good for men is good for women and what is good for women is good for men. Therefore, while one may be more damaging to one, we must take them both together.
Why should we care about women in our tribe? Because we are framed men and that means we are responsible for all women. All women in reality are our responsibility. Many immature and weak men will deny or reject this. Redpill gurus refuse this grand and global responsibility.
Before we go into discussion on male confession to a woman, we must discuss what guilt means. A man with a guilty conscience is a man in doubt of how his behavior is aligning with his identity. And now just how he perceives himself but how those in authority perceive him.
Guilt under authority makes a person doubt themself. And what is the authority? It is whatever a man deems as moral authority above. It can be nation, tribe, church or any group where shame would make an individual doubt himself.
A woman is ruled by dual emotion each month. She is ruled by sexual confidence one half and emotional vulnerability the next. This creates a feeling of certainty in her spirit as she must battle against her own perception.
This irrational feeling of self is like a woman head is spinning. And from this spinning and vulnerable state she will look to others to stabilize herself. A woman left spinning alone goes mad and sinks in her own doubt.
A woman does not want to listen to a man, she wants to talk.
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Unframed men believe in the lie of equality in romance and view their women as friends. They laugh, cry and share their every thought with their women. In their minds they view this as a connection that enhances the relationship. Is this correct?
Does sharing thoughts strengthen the relationship? No. When a man is talking to his woman, she will be losing respect for him the more he speaks. Why? Because speech is validation seeking behavior.
Before we go into how to lower emotion. Let us discuss why we would want to lower emotion in the body. Many women and feminized men think emotions are positive and that "Getting in touch" with emotion is healthy. Is that true? Let us discuss.
What is the positive that can be had by becoming emotional about something? The Wall Speaks was written from an emotional place because the empathy for suffering of fatherless men inspired me. When emotion moves us to act is a positive.