How a man can transition from "Nice guy" to framed man.
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What does it mean to be nice? It means to reassure others of their emotional doubt through kindness. The more men are conditioned to be in emotional doubt, the more they will rely on the kindness of others for their own sense of self.
Most times when a man is "nice" to other men is because niceness is a display of harmlessness. It is a way to signal to other men that he is in a submissive state that is non-threatening to their sexual selection.
This is not to say that men cannot be nice to each other. This is to say that a man should not be nice in a weak-willed way to everyone around him. The niceness of a "Nice guy" is a projection of cowardice to avoid confrontation.
This is one reason that women do not respect nice guys. Another reason is that women know that a man will be nice with them only because he is showcasing harmlessness in order to secure sexual selection. He wants to have sex with them at the core of his behaviors and acts nice.
When a nice guy is in a relationship with a woman he will "Make love" only because he fears acting upon his desire to fuck. His woman knows this is yet again an act of cowardice on his part which aligns with his "Nice Guy" persona.
The basis for a nice guy is his overwhelming cowardice to confrontation. He avoids confrontation over his true reality within because he is frozen behind a smiling mask. It is a spirit of agreeableness that is based on lies and deception. Women know these men are fake and weak
How can a man go from nice to framed? He must not be in a constant state of reassuring others of his harmlessness. He should not fear confrontation and he should not fear upsetting other people's emotional states. He does not need to smile for others. He can remain unexpressive.
The less a man expresses his inner reality on his face the more he allows himself to be free of a nice guy grin. This type of man must start focusing on seeking RESPECT OVER AFFECTION. We are men, we want respect and leave love to women and children.
Also, another way for a man to alter his nice guy persona is to not overly indulge in nice guy entertainment. A man can go from listening to emotional music to listening to low emotion music like death metal. This change in media will reaffirm his state of mind.
Depression comes for each man on occasion. At times a man will feel weak, lonesome and at odds with himself. Maybe he will begin to hate himself and will doubt his own reality. In his head he may think "What is the point?" And will feel unmotivated in his life.
At times I will get depressed and lose motivation. I will feel overwhelmed by a negative viewpoint and feel that my life is sinking instead of rising. This can bring me into a mood that seeks comfort over challenge because any more challenge feels disheartening.
Why a man should not take rejection in romance personally.
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All men have been sexually rejected one time or another. A man may hope for an interaction with a woman and become hurt when it does not realize. He will feel hurt and will question himself. His self-esteem may lower because of being rejected. His confidence may shatter.
What does it mean to take rejection personally? It means to be emotionally affected by the rejection of our sense of self. And this rejection of self can cause a man to doubt his sense of attractiveness to women. This can cause him to sour in emotion and spike a feeling of pain
A man will catch feelings for a woman. If a man is human than he will have some feelings for a woman after being in a relationship for a while. But the key thing this thread will discuss is how to keep emotional distance and low feelings for a woman.
Feelings build based on sentiment and emotional attachment through reliance on validation. A man will begin to have feelings for a woman because he begins to romanticize her apart from other women. The more special a man makes a woman in his mind, the greater the feeling.
A man may wonder what to do when he catches his woman cheating. When a woman is disloyal and betrays a man can cause him deep pain from emasculation. Men hold great pride that deserves greater respect by women. OUR PRIDE IS HOLY AND A WOMAN WHO CHEATS PROFANES THAT GLORY.
So, what should a man do when he catches his woman cheating? Let us define "Cheating" -- There are levels to this. A woman who flirts with other men is cheating on her man. She is disrespecting him by pretending she is available for sexual access. She gets off the attention.
A common issue with unframed men in their relationships with their women is that the women control the sex. These women will frequently deny and reject their men sexually with various excuses.
"I have a headache" "I am not in the mood" "I do not feel attractive tonight" -- blah blah blah. These are common phrases that women use to slide out of their responsibility to supply their men sex. These women are not sexually aroused by their men and feel burdened by sex
Why a man must be a protector/provider to his woman.
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The idea of men being protector/providers to their women may seem old fashion to modern feminist sensibilities. Feminists may say "Men have been protector/providers historical"
They use the word "Historically" because history can be dismissed. This fuels their worldview of social constructs. It allows them to think it is merely a bygone tradition with little rational meaning.