1. “Is it something I can do efficiently?”: A lot of us pick jobs that we aren’t quite sure we can perform excellently at. Lack of efficiency will lead to frustration and will also make you hate your job, so make sure you can be efficient at it.
2. “Does it pay well?”: Are you going to be paid your worth? Is the capacity of job you are doing going to match the pay you are being offered? Ask these questions so you don’t end up getting overworked and underpaid.
3. “Why do I want to do this job?”: Are you trying to make an impact or you are just doing it for the money? Whatever reason it is, stick to it and let it be a driving force for you to be good at the job.
4. “How far is it from my residence and what are the expenses?”: You need to find out how far from your residence your place of work is. Will you prefer a remote job or a job close by. If it is far away, will you be able to cover the expenses without breaking bank?
5. “What education/training do I need to be great at the job?”: You need to be sure your level of knowledge is high enough for the kind of job you are taking. If it isn’t, try to take courses that will help you be a better fit for the job. There is always room for improvement.
6. “Is it a job I am interested in?”: Although passion doesn’t exactly pay the bills, but it is advisable to have a little bit of interest in what you do, so everyday doesn’t feel like a tiring routine, but instead, an opportunity to do what you love.
7. “What makes me valuable?”: You have skills that make you unique. Focus on those skills, hone your talents and make yourself valuable to your company. When you are valuable to your company, you become an asset and not a liability they can do away with when they please.
We wish you the best as you decide on the perfect job for you, and we are rooting for you!
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I know there are posts everywhere on the internet about leaving a relationship or marriage when you are unhappy but very rarely do you hear about people (especially young couples) who took their time to work things out.
Marriage is beautiful but totally worth the wait. Our courtship was long distance but the man at the other end was completely amazing and I could swear I was smitten.
He loved me and still loves me beyond words but there is more to marriage than love. Friendship is most important and it births love. Perfect!
Valentine’s Day is on a Monday, a working day. How sweet. It’s even more wonderful because the day after is a also work day. Tension will not be on the high side. Is there anything too hard for God to do? No.
We know that some of you with unnecessary gragra will still manage to pull it off. We don’t have a problem with this o. No, not at all. We just want to make sure that as you are expressing your love, you are going all out with it.
We don’t want to see any half-baked presents, like boxers, singlet, and paynt. That’s why we said, “Okay o, let us give these people expo.”
In my complex, on my way to my house, I see a woman chilling by the pool, she’s gently rocking her baby in the stroller. What catches my eye and ear is her toddler’s scream.
He’s rolling on the floor, crying. I watch him get up, slam himself on the floor and scream louder.
His mother gets up from her lounge position, I assume she’s going to console him. Instead, she pulls back the lounge chairs beside the toddler, dragging them away from him.
Then, she goes back to chilling on her lounge chair,
continues to rock the baby in the stroller while the toddler throws a tantrum.
I move close to her, “Is he okay?” I ask, half smiling, half concerned.
“Oh, he’s fine. He will be fine,” she says. She is quite unbothered.
Marriages in Nigeria and most parts of Africa are sustained by women. You can argue this with your village deity. Women in general, put up with a lot of bullshit just to make their marriages work.
From childhood they have been taught that a wise woman keeps her home. In order to keep their homes, they end up enduring a lot of ill-treatment.
Find any woman who has been with a man for donkey years and ask her if she would love to marry that same man over again in her next life. Majority would say no. This brings us to the point that most marriages are endurance marriages not happy marriages.
I have concluded that, “When will you come to my house?” is the one question Lagos men love asking. If they don’t ask this question in a day, they will probably faint!
Nothing like, “Let me take you on a trip to the Maldives,” or “Let’s go picnicking on the beach.” Iro! No romance from here to there. Nothing nothing. Just vibes, Insha Allah and “come to my house.”
Okay o! We have come to your house o! House is smelling like ginger mixed with dirty socks.
Today, I’d like to - once again- address people in their early 20s.
When I graduated from Uni in 2006 (22 years old) I had a plan - Work for a movie company, save, write my own movie. The plan didn’t work after NYSC when I realised those movie companies didn’t pay much/at all.
Sometimes, I would walk to Opebi from Maryland Bus-stop because I couldn’t afford public transportation so I changed plans: Get a job that pays you, make money, then write. My goal was to be a writer so any job I took at the time was okay as long as I was making money.
In 2008, I worked in a wealth management firm as a receptionist- my first real job. I would hear conversations about investments but mostly they were huge sums that seemed far-fetched at the time. I was just striving to survive and my belief was that only rich people invest,