Six Things You Deserve To Experience In Your Lifetime
1. Love: You deserve to experience sweet, refreshing love. The kind of love that you don’t have to second guess. You deserve the assurance that comes with loving someone and being loved in return.
2. Peace: You deserve to feel at peace in life. No matter what the circumstances may be. True peace is not the absence of challenges, but it is knowing that everything will be just fine in the end, and there is no need to worry.
3. Purpose: You deserve to experience purpose and fulfill it. Having to fulfill your purpose is one of the most satisfying things that could ever happen. And I hope you get that.
4. Real orgasm: You deserve real life orgasm. You don’t have to fake them anymore. You deserve to ask for it if your partner isn’t patient enough to give it to you. You deserve lots of pleasure, and climax, without having to fake them.
5. Meaningful friendships: Friendships that tend to your spirit and please your soul. Friendships you can be your complete self in, and not have to pretend. The kind that makes you grow. I hope you find them, keep them. I hope they stay and you also let them stay.
6. Grace: Everyone deserves grace in life. We are all flawed and imperfect, but grace is what makes us worthy of what we do not exactly deserve. So I hope you experience this, so your name will be significant in places you want to be, no matter how hard it is to believe.
When you get all these, I hope you know that you deserve them all. You are worthy of everything and more. Every single thing. ❤️
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I woke up this morning and tried to think about the last time I had a Valentine’s date and I realized that I haven’t had one in a long time. I felt sad at first but one thing I avoided was tell myself, “Don’t worry, you’d get one next year,” because what if I don’t?
I calmed myself down and thought about the love I have been shown in life. I realized that I have been loved by people in so many ways, but not being shown love in a certain way - romantically - made me feel like I had never experienced it.
I looked back on my life and thought about how significant I had made romantic love be in my life. Yes, it is a good thing to experience, but there are greater forms of love I should be grateful for.
I know there are posts everywhere on the internet about leaving a relationship or marriage when you are unhappy but very rarely do you hear about people (especially young couples) who took their time to work things out.
Marriage is beautiful but totally worth the wait. Our courtship was long distance but the man at the other end was completely amazing and I could swear I was smitten.
He loved me and still loves me beyond words but there is more to marriage than love. Friendship is most important and it births love. Perfect!
Valentine’s Day is on a Monday, a working day. How sweet. It’s even more wonderful because the day after is a also work day. Tension will not be on the high side. Is there anything too hard for God to do? No.
We know that some of you with unnecessary gragra will still manage to pull it off. We don’t have a problem with this o. No, not at all. We just want to make sure that as you are expressing your love, you are going all out with it.
We don’t want to see any half-baked presents, like boxers, singlet, and paynt. That’s why we said, “Okay o, let us give these people expo.”
1. “Is it something I can do efficiently?”: A lot of us pick jobs that we aren’t quite sure we can perform excellently at. Lack of efficiency will lead to frustration and will also make you hate your job, so make sure you can be efficient at it.
2. “Does it pay well?”: Are you going to be paid your worth? Is the capacity of job you are doing going to match the pay you are being offered? Ask these questions so you don’t end up getting overworked and underpaid.
In my complex, on my way to my house, I see a woman chilling by the pool, she’s gently rocking her baby in the stroller. What catches my eye and ear is her toddler’s scream.
He’s rolling on the floor, crying. I watch him get up, slam himself on the floor and scream louder.
His mother gets up from her lounge position, I assume she’s going to console him. Instead, she pulls back the lounge chairs beside the toddler, dragging them away from him.
Then, she goes back to chilling on her lounge chair,
continues to rock the baby in the stroller while the toddler throws a tantrum.
I move close to her, “Is he okay?” I ask, half smiling, half concerned.
“Oh, he’s fine. He will be fine,” she says. She is quite unbothered.
Marriages in Nigeria and most parts of Africa are sustained by women. You can argue this with your village deity. Women in general, put up with a lot of bullshit just to make their marriages work.
From childhood they have been taught that a wise woman keeps her home. In order to keep their homes, they end up enduring a lot of ill-treatment.
Find any woman who has been with a man for donkey years and ask her if she would love to marry that same man over again in her next life. Majority would say no. This brings us to the point that most marriages are endurance marriages not happy marriages.