Thread by @kshitijtarey

Long thread
1)
Hi Everyone,
This is Kshitij Tarey.
I tried for long that these things should not come out in public. But now I am left with no option but to do this.
I am going through a very bad and violent divorce case.
#divorce

2)
I & my wife had a lot of troubles in our marriage due 2 her violent behavior towards me and our children.Eventually we decided to go for divorce mutually.When she talked to her family and friends, suddenly out of nowhere I was blamed for many wrong things.
#domesticviolence

3) including having an affair, demanding Piano as dowry and she started demanding huge money and what not.
Me & my wife have separated from Dec 2019 when her parents and her Brother & Bhabhi came to Mumbai and took my wife with them and leaving our twin children with me in Mumbai

4) 1 month later in January 2020, my wife came on pretext of celebrating Children`s birthday and blamed me for lot of wrong thing and forcefully took the kids from me with the help of 1 couple from my building.

5) That couple created lots of issues and defamed me in every sense possible, so I had to send legal notice against that couple and only then the couple sat quiet.
All this was done in between the school session and my kids` education was also hampered.

6) That day my wife falsely accused me of many things.
Since she took the kids forcefully and blamed me for many things, I filed for divorce.

She took the kids to Hyderabad. When I went to meet the kids in Hyderabad in Jan 2020. Kids pleaded to take them with me to Mumbai.

7) I again tried to convince her that for the kids’ welfare we should work out a way which works best for everyone but all she was talking about demanding huge money (I will share her demands at the end of the post).
#kidswelfare

8) Then she shifted to Ujjain. In Feb 2020, again I went to Ujjain to meet my kids where she created a lot of drama and tried to implicate me. And threatened me with fake police complaints. Unfortunately, I had to go to meet kids to their home, because when we met in Ujjain mall,

9) my wife along with her Mausi again forcefully took the kids.
When I went to their home, things got heated and eventually I had to tell her family that she has been violent with me and hit me. (Yes, Man can be victim of physical Abuse) thinking that now

10) her family will be a bit calmer. But her cousin brother told me that I will face huge consequences and said “ise to main dekh lunga”
To my shock her mother supported her saying “Haan Maara hai to maara, maara to maara”. Her whole family didn’t seem to find anything wrong

11) in my wife being a physical abuser.
The reason she hit me was that her father and their family consider her father an avatar of God and I should worship him and agree to whatever he says which I denied
#physicalabuser

12) and it hurt their expectations because I worship God and not a man who pretends to be an avatar of God.
Somehow again with help of her mausi I was “allowed” to meet my own sons.
I was asked to come next day to meet.
#fake

13) Next day again when I went to pick my kids. My wife again created a scene and hit herself and filed fake complaint against me in the Mahila police station and said that I need to bring the court order to meet my own son.
#fakecae

14) After that lockdown was imposed due to covid in March 2020 and I wasn’t allowed even to see my kids on video call.
My family members talked to many of her family members to convince them that I should at least be allowed video call with the kids as Covid pandemic is there

15) and I am worried about my kids but no one from their family helped.
After a lot of efforts when nothing worked
I filed the case under the guardians and wards act for the custody of children.
I got the visiting rights, I kept meeting kids thrice in a month for next 1 year.

16) Kids were very very happy and always asked me to come to meet them. The things my children used to tell me about their mother and her family during visiting were no less than any shock But I believe in the Indian law and judiciary,
#scary

17) so I kept convincing the kids that everything will be fine.
My children many times pleaded me that I should take them with me because their mother and her family is treating them very badly but since the court cases were going on I decided that I will fight it legally.

18) For 2022 summer vacation I asked the court that I want to take the kids to my hometown, to which my wife pleaded that it should not be allowed as Children are not comfortable with me and children should be asked first.
#Legal

19) The Hon`ble court called children & after talking to them the Hon’ble court gave me 3 days visitation per week for whole summer vacation.
When I went to meet the kids,my wife tutored the children and brainwashed them completely and I again could not meet.
#parentalalienation

20) When next time I again went to meet with my Bhabhi in May 2022 with the proper visiting order issued by the Hon`ble Court. My wife`s family gathered whole mohalla waala to create pressure, when we exposed wife`s violent nature and drunkard behavior,

21) my wife along with her Bhabhi became very violent and behaved violently and started abusing us and threatened us with our lives (I am still not understanding how can others interfere in father son relationship even after having Hon’ble court orders)

22) The FIR was filed against my wife and her Bhabhi and due process is on.
In the meantime, I haven’t seen my children as it is very risky to go into their territory.
I have been threatened with false “ME TOO” case against me. (Due complaint is lodged)
#MeToo

23) I have received messaged trying to Honey trap me.
I along with my family have been saved from major road accidents.
Fake Domestic violence case is filed against me and my parents whereas the fact is my wife was the actual abuser.
#honeytrap

24) This all is happening just because I am not agreeing to their demands of huge money.
Whoever is supporting my wife for money must understand I will not pay a single rupee out of fear to “Settle” cases because I haven’t done anything wrong.
#demands

25) I will keep fighting for the rights of me and my children.
I am a survivor of domestic violence. My children are living in the most toxic and violent family and I am sure that we will get the custody of my children as welfare of child is paramount consideration.