Thread by @ApexOliver

Everybody need in their lives someone who's going to ask them the tough questions.

What is it you're doing?
Why are you doing it?
Where are you going?
etc.

We often avoid the important questions because they have hard answers, and they contain demons we're not ready to face.

You can't bullshit with excuses others as easily as you bullshit yourself, I know that from experience.

For a while, I've been "too comfortable", I had plans and I did work towards them, but not on "full power".

Today I found the plans and goals that I wrote 4yrs ago.

To be honest, it shocked me, because I feel like I wrote it last week, hard to believe how fast time flew.
By now, I expected to achieve all of my goals and much more.
I did achieve most of them actually, including other accomplishments I haven't planned. so I'm kinda happy.

But regardless, it still put fire on my ass, because I know I can get much more done, and I'm angry that I didn't get the most important shit done as well.

Had a chat with @TheFamilyAlpha , asked me the questions I needed to be asked, impossible to describe how I feel right now.

Everyone needs such person in their lives, it provides an honest unbiased feedback that we all can benefit from.
We tend to befriend those who tell us what we want to hear, and not what we need to hear.

Find honest friends who will tell you the painful truth, for your sake.