You have no reason to be living under your father's roof after college. You will be a father & husband one day. Go out there, & learn leadership because responsibility is not genetic. You earn it. Past 25, pack your things & go start living - with friends or by yourself. Grow up!
What if you have no job? Staying with your father won't get you a job. Youu are spending 5K every week anyway on alcohol you don't need, banter that does not grow you, and women who don't challenge you. Go experience privation, learn to budget. Make real connections.
Listen, when you are a man, the world does not care. People like to associate with men that make shit happen. Your fear of discomfort is an impediment to growth. I want to link you to opportunities but you cannot stay out past 11. "Daddy will lock me out" And you are 30!
It isn't a celebration of suffering we preach, but the pursuit of "why". Because once you have a "why" that is inevitable you will make a way. In the process of making a way, you build connections with your peers, for future opportunities. They know you, they can trust you.
Some are trying to live in Africa like they are in America. At some age, African parents want you gone, whether they say it or not. Be they rich, or poor! They want you to go & start beating your path. To learn to live with people. If birds with no brain know this, why don't you?
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