He traveled to her school to spend the week with her
It was a yearly ritual they had since they became lovers
They always spent the valentine week together wherever
they found themselves
The previous year, ASUU was on strike and they spent the week in
each other's company
It was her idea
The Valentine week ritual
She told him right after they started dating that February 14 was a hoax in her opinion
Most people with multiple lovers find a way to satisfy all their partners
She said she had older brothers and many male friends
She had also been room mates with ladies with multiple partners
She said she cannot trust anybody who wouldn't spend the whole week from February 10-february 17 with her
He felt she was being overdramatic but since he had nothing to hide, he fell inline
She was the most dedicated
lover he ever had
She was clingy in a wonderful way
She was his best friend and his heartbeat
He arrived at her school on February 10
He had a cousin who was also a student in her school
Whenever he went to see her, he stayed with his cousin
Their relationship was sacred to the
two of them
He was determined to make things work and so was she
They met at a fast food joint on campus the very day he got to her school
He had saved towards the week and had more than enough to cater to their needs
She bought some stuff and they decided to take a stroll
Just as they walked out of the restaurant he heard his name
He turned back to see two ladies
One of them was smiling and looked very familiar
He stopped and turned
Her face lit up in his
She was his old friend, the one that attended Wasley College with him in secondary School
They shook hands and he introduced his babe to his old friend
They had some small talk
His old friend asked him where he was staying
He gave her the address of his cousin
She promised to check on him if she could spare the time
He and his babe took their leave some minutes later
That evening, after his babe had gone to her hostel, he sat with his cousin
They were listening to some music and talking generally
He told his cousin that he met his old friend
His cousin also attended Wesley College and they were all in the same class
His cousin told him the
old friend was always asking of him
The next day, his babe came to check on him
He told his babe his old friend had called him earlier in the day and told him she would be coming around to see him that evening
His babe said No!
She said they could catch up at another time but not
during their valentine's week ritual
He tried to reason with her but she insisted it can never happen
They were still talking about it when his old friend arrived in company of another friend
His babe was barely able to keep it together
He had never seen her so territorial and
unreasonable before
His old friend spent an hour with them before taking her leave
As soon as she was gone, his babe said "When your friend was here, I had a deja vu moment. It was as if I have seen that scene before in a dream or a vision. It was weird but in that dream, I saw
and your old friend holding hands and making promises to each other like lovers"
He laughed so much that his tummy started hurting him
Jealousy can provoke the imagination in so many ways
The deja vu story was a classic case of jealousy and manipulation in his opinion
He told his
babe to perish the thought
The valentine week went on without a hitch
He returned to his school
In June 2015 he was in school, working on his final year project when he got a phone call from home
His mother had taken ill and his siblings were scared she might die
He dropped
everything and boarded the next available bus home
When he got home, his father and younger sister drove him to the hospital
When he got to the hospital, he found his mother asleep in a hospital bed
Next to his mother's bed was another woman who was ill
As he turned to greet the
woman and her minders, he heard his name
He turned around and to his shock saw his old friend
The one he went to Wesley College with
The one his babe had a deja vu moment about
His old friend's mother was ill and of all the rooms they could have given her in the hospital, they
put her in the same room as his mother
He and his old friend somehow got talking
His mother spent 10 days in the hospital
He was with her for three days
By the time he got back to school, everything had changed
He couldn't explain how but things were no longer the same
His babe
acted the same way she had always acted and he responded the same way he had always responded but they started growing apart
By September 2015 when he was posted for NYSC, his relationship was over
It died a natural death
In December 2015, when he traveled home to spend Christmas
with his parents, his old friend came visiting
They got talking again
One thing led to the other
He asked her out
She said yes
In October 2016, he proposed
She said YES!
They got married in August 2018
PS: He said things just fell into place
She said things just fell into place
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David Yongi-Cho was dying of tuberculosis at a very young age when a young lady started coming to his house with a New testament Bible
According to him, the young lady came to his house persistently until he took the Bible from her, read it and accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord
and saviour
Smith Wigglesworth was a sinner who had no time for the message of grace until a lady (He later married her) took it upon herself to witness the gospel to him
After his conversion, Smith Wigglesworth raised his wife from the dead by the power of the Holy Spirit
Romans
10 vs13 for, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” 14 How then can they call on the One in whom they have not believed? And how can they believe in the One of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone to preach? 15 And how can they
Someone preached the gospel to another person of another religion
She didn't carry a megaphone at 5AM in the morning to disturb the neighbourhood
The person she preached to was in the same car with her
The person was not a child
The person could have told the person preaching to
him to "shut up" at anytime
The preacher and the one being preached to are both mature adults
The person that was preached to didn't report being harassed or embarrassed
It was the one who preached that excitedly talked about the experience
But this is Twitter
All the dumb poles
have an opinion
The opinion is not going to be based on any form of objectivity
What we want are retweet and likes
So we check the pulse of the community
We look at the popular handles
We have to go with popular opinion so that our opinion and that of "celebrities" are in sync
Rather than cheat on your spouse, the honourable thing to do is quit the marriage
I know many people would rather want to eat their cake and have it, in principle, people who do that are scums and cheats
Either you are the husband or the wife, you have a duty to yourself to stay
faithful to your spouse regardless of the circumstances or the situation you find yourself in
If the situation is such that you cannot cope with the relationship, the best thing to do is walk out and stay out.
A lady came to my office claiming her husband was a two minute man and
the lack of sexual satisfaction had almost driven her into the street in search of a lover
She hadn't done anything yet...
She was just considering it because of the frustration the quick ejaculation issue the husband has was causing her
She made sure she dragged her husband to
She walked into my office on a Sunday Morning at about 11:15AM
She said she wanted me to pray for her two teenagers
She looked so young and modern with multiple earrings adorning her ears and a short crisp (tainted) haircut and a short (Not indecent) gown
She was ushered in right
after the service
She said a brother in church insisted she had to meet with me for prayers
She didn't look like someone who had ever seen a night all her life but appearances can indeed be deceptive
She told me she was facing a very strong challenge in her marriage
Her husband
of over 18 years suddenly packed his bag and left the house he built claiming she was trying to kill him
He walked out of his home
He went back to his Father's house and started staying with his mother
It was a puzzle
The wife claimed it was demonic manipulation
She said his
He was a cheat
The first time she discovered he was cheating on her was two weeks to their wedding
She was four months pregnant and had woken up that morning with the intention of paying him a surprise visit at his crib in Magodo
He was still sharing a flat with three of his
friends at the time
She got to Magodo at about noon
The apartment was right behind the main house and the gate was almost always locked
Usually she would call call him once she got to the gate so that he would come and open the gate for her but on that fateful day, she met the
gate ajar
Someone was driving out of the compound and the big gate was wide open
She walked in, climbed the stairs to the boys quarters and met the door open
She walked in and found them (Her man and a lady) doing it
It was the last thing she expected to see, especially because
What she wanted to do was spice things up
Her marriage was too boring, too predictable
Sometimes it takes a lot of efforts for her husband to get it up and for him to last long enough for her to get there was also a herculean task
They used to be very sexually compatible but
after thirteen years in the love boat, the "see finish" syndrome crept in
She felt she was no longer exciting him
He had settled into life as a man and was no longer trying to do "playboy" with her
It was a terrible sinking feeling for her
A terrible omen about the close of a
season of excitement and joy
She started reading books about prolonging the fun
It didn't start with the book though
It started with an old secondary school friend
He chatted her up and somehow their conversation took an exciting turn
It was the last thing she expected after two