I see a lot of people recently interested in the autism quizzes available online. Here are 3 I have tried, I'm sharing these for anyone who is interested. I am not endorsing the quizzes, their creators, or the results, but it can be a useful starting point for people who are...
early in their diagnostic journey. It can help you visualize some neurodivergent traits, provide validation, & point you in the direction of future research. Most of all, it can help you start thinking critically about your neurodivergent traits, & honestly, the quizzes are...
fun to take & share your results with friends & family. Please keep in mind these are not official or necessarily scientific, so take your results with a grain of salt. I also recommend if possible having someone close to you help answer questions to get an outside perspective...
because sometimes it's hard to assess these things in ourselves. Here are the 3 I've tried, in no particular order:
Work from home has opened up the lives of disabled people in ways you would never expect.
It's essential that both abled & disabled people continue to be offered this life changing opportunity.
I don't currently work, but my abled husband working from home has changed our lives
Him being at home each day allows him to help me with simple things I'd otherwise struggle to accomplish on my own.
Most disabled people don't have anyone to help them each day, but are nevertheless not able to live entirely independently. Many of us rely on our spouses' help.
Allowing abled & disabled people alike to work from home is a huge way to level the playing field in the workplace.
Plus, it allows people exponentially more time with their families due to not having to commute, & being home on breaks. It promotes a better work-life balance.
I've been ticcing so bad lately. I have primarily facial tics. They used to be so bad in ms/hs that I developed wrinkles from doing it so much. But I willed myself to do it less through sheer force of will, which obviously was difficult & exhausting, & by replacing them with- 1/5
different stims like combing my fingers through my hair (till I had a pile of hair under my desk) or putting on LOTS of lip balm. I also used to struggle with excessively scratching my scalp, which turned into picking my skin excessively, which I still struggle with greatly. 2/5
At one point I was even chewing chunks out of the tips of my fingers, as well as my tongue, lips, & cheeks. I really struggled with these bodily compulsions.
Lately my facial tics have come back with a vengeance. This increases my already awful facial/jaw pain. 3/5
The difference between something like glasses & many other disability aids is access. Glasses are normalized, a lot more than a mobility aid or another tool like a colostomy bag or port, for instance. There are far fewer barriers in the world for someone who wears glasses than...
for other disabilities. This is usually actually how I describe the social model of disability to people. You are only "disabled" if your needs are not normalized in society. So since so many people need glasses, most people who need them get them, & most people don't bat an...
eye at seeing someone wearing glasses. (However, there is a major issue, as there are in most instances of medical access, wherein minority & low income students, & adults too, have lower rates of access to glasses for those who need them, but this is a tangent for another day)..
1st episode: I really like how they talk about how the ratio of boys to girls with autism is shrinking down from that often cited ratio of 4:1. They mention how this is due to our increased understanding of different presentations of autism, so A++ there!
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I also love that they touch on how empathetic autistic people can be! It is often our superpower, & we can become amazing at things like reading facial expressions & body language, even better than a typical person in some cases, due to our ability to observe/study behavior.