MEN AND WOMEN ARE UNIQUE IN THEIR OWN WAYS.

Men and women are different and have a uniqueness that's peculiar to them respectively.

Women's major contribution to the society is the birthing and raising of great men and women, which is the greatest calling ever.
This earns them respect, honor and adoration. This is the reason why they are celebrated 10 times in a year.

Men's major contribution to the society is provision, protection and nation building. Every beautiful and luxurious life we enjoy today is their doings.

Since time
... immemorial, men have done unfathomable job to bring us to where we are today, yet women are celebrated more.

This brings me to the reason of this thread.

Women are on the verge of losing their uniqueness and feminists are making sure of that through their definition of
...what an ambitious and successful life should be like and unfortunately, they are using men's uniqueness as the standard. Hence, why they disrespect housewives because to them, they are women with no ambition.

A successful, fulfilled life is what one defines it to be.
There are some people who do not want to be billionaires or millionaires, they just want to have their daily bread and be able to pay their bills on time and have peace of mind.

Some want to have a successful marriage to feel fulfilled.

Someone like me can still be fulfilled
... without marriage as long as I get to raise great men and women even if they are not my biological children.

A successful and fulfilled life is peculiar to each individual but to our feminists, anything less than the success peculiar to men makes a woman less ambitious.
And this is coming from a place of inferiority complex. Naturally, on humanity scale, men are the superior being, hence why they are the standard understandably.

But being inferior to someone is not the problem but feeling insecure about it is the problem.

Two women can't be
... equal on the scale of beauty, intelligence, hard work etc. One has to be superior over the other on the different categories.

How the inferior one sees and understand things matter.

Back in school, you will notice that there some guys who are not too intelligent but they
...were loved and respected by teachers and students, they are mostly the funny guys that crack jokes all the time. On the scale of intelligence, they are not up there but their confidence and friendly vibes earned them respect. In senior classes, they are mostly the sports
...prefects. Their female version are those girls with bad mouths, even the principal knows them by name more than the intelligent ones.

They are confident and they hold offices too in senior classes. They are inferior on intelligence but they have their uniqueness that draws
... people to them.

The inferiority complex is the reason why some of them exhibit masculine attributes because they think that's what will attract men's respect but it makes them undesirable.

Men will respect and adore a feminine energy while they will treat a woman with a
... masculine energy as their fellow men because they are seeing you as a competition and that always ends in premium tears.

Men are dominant and competitive and you shouldn't expect anything less from them.

Insecurity is the reason why feminists keep complaining about being
...treated as seconded class citizens or inferior. There's nothing wrong being an inferior because you will always be superior in some facets of life.

In those areas women are superior are what feminists are trampling on while chasing shadows.
Reality check: In nation building, women can never, not even in a million years even if we move into another planet give equal outcome or more than men as long as we retain our physiology.

Women CANNOT build the nation from the grassroots, that's doing the awful, dangerous,
... risky jobs to the top level in nation building.

Chimamanda Adichie in one of her videos said that, women can do anything men do these days because we no longer need brute force like in the ancient days.

That got me thinking, so in those days when muscles were needed,
... women were okay staying away from the work force while men do the brutal jobs that cost them their limbs and lives.
Now, after the toiling in inventing machines and technologies to make nation building easier for men, feminists are now okay with working and earning equal pay.
That's a disgusting behavior! Why not leave men to continue with their work? At least, let them reap the fruit of their labor.

This disgusting behavior is the reason why feminists are after all the cushy jobs, they want to be in managerial positions.

Please, remind them that
... jobs that require brutal force are still out there, and we need more hands. They should start their fight for equality from there.

Women are losing their uniqueness, the reason why they are celebrated more than men in the first place because they have been misled to see it
...as inconsequential. Also, they can't measure up to societal expectations in nation building. That's losing at both ends.

* Be secured in your uniqueness.

* Be a woman, a mother to the nation.

* Be feminine.

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The fact is, we all are guilty of demanding submission from people directly or indirectly as long as we are responsible for them.
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Our parents are responsible for us and they shoulder that responsibility, reason why it hurts them badly when we rebel against them.

Same thing goes to older siblings who sacrifice a lot to take care of
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Well, I'm not feminist and I've never subscribed to feminism.

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When it comes to why you don't have interest in politics or other disciplines, you cry indoctrination;

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"Dismantle the Patriarchy"

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Spoiler alert: That's patriarchy.

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Men and women are different, they behave differently, hence they desire and have interest in different things.

For instance, a couple get engaged.

Woman: I said yes to my best friend.
Man: (has gone about his business)
On birthdays,

Woman: happy birthday to my husband, the love of... She writes epistle.

Man: happy to my love, the mother of my children. (Case closed).

The same thing on anniversaries.

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Whereas the man in question may never mention anything about his divorce.

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But why should they complain when they willingly started family right? Also complaining and whining are women's job.

"Women are the real VIP for their decisions"

Men are what?
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Many men don't receive love from their children because their jobs required them to be absent?

Imagine hustling under sun and rain to take care of your children only for them to have little or no love
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