Whenever you talk about a woman submitting to her husband, feminists will shout slavery, misogyny, dismantle patriarchy and throw insults around.

The fact is, we all are guilty of demanding submission from people directly or indirectly as long as we are responsible for them.
And that's perfectly fine and normal. Responsibility comes with authority.

Our parents are responsible for us and they shoulder that responsibility, reason why it hurts them badly when we rebel against them.

Same thing goes to older siblings who sacrifice a lot to take care of
...their younger siblings.

Some people decline executive positions in some organizations where they don't gain anything because of the responsibilities and when they do take such positions, submission from the floor members ought to be automatic even though they have a say.
On Twitter here, we've seen people post tweet of someone they have helped at some point in time because of some disagreement.
They expect submission from that person albeit unhealthy.

It's a natural phenomenon to have authority over the person you're responsible for.
Responsibility without authority is slavery and nobody wants to be in that position.

If these scenarios are normal, why should a woman's submission to her husband be questioned?

Bearing his name alone gives you an added privileges.

Walk into any office with your single female
... Friends, you are most likely going to be attended to first with utmost respect as well.

His name gives you an added protection, people won't harrass you anyhow.

Last week, I went to the market, Eke Awka precisely and a woman was insulting a man.

This man is above 6ft,
...and he's hefty. This man will bench press her without breaking a sweat. Firstly, she was at fault, instead of apologizing she was claiming right. Some people were even scolding her.

Do you know what the man told her?
He said and I quote "if you were single, I will use my
...belt and give you the flogging of your life. Let me go and meet your husband"

Why is it wrong for a woman to submit to the man who's;

- Her provider?
- Her protector?
- Responsible for her?
- Held accountable for every of her actions?

So many men are out there quenching
...the fire their wives set in market places, in church, their children's school and other organizations they are members of. Including the fire these women set in their various families, the men are held accountable for such bad behaviors.

Despite all that, you still believe
...that woman shouldn't submit to her husband, obey him, follow his guidance and instructions?

You don't want to be held accountable and the person who's ready to take it up, you don't want to make it easier for him. What are you?

Please, throw away every negative notion you
... have about submission because it's a part of our daily lives and marriage shouldn't be exempted.

What we should be talking about is having men who will not abuse the authority and try to subdue their wife at every given opportunity.

Women should pray to marry alpha males
...who command submission with their actions not weak men who become tyrants at the slightest thirst of power.

Power intoxicates but it only intoxicates weak men.

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