Yesterday's event further uncovers men's role in the corporative affairs of humanity which feminists are blind to and many men are also unaware of; MEN ARE AT SERVICE TO WOMEN.... and children.

And men are not appreciated for this life of service. Every single day, they are
...generally condemned, demonized, bashed and blamed for every single unfortunate event that happened whether it's within their control or not, it's their fault.

You need to be held at a very high standard for you to be blamed for things practically out of your control.
Every single hustle of a man is for women and children. Men are simple by nature, they can get by without much and still be happy.

From time immemorial, men have been doing everything possible to ensure that life is easier for women. Some lost their limbs while some died while
... trying to achieve this feat and what do they get in return? Condemnation.

Yesterday, our feminists went on a protest against online harassment by boycotting Twitter and men took it upon themselves to utilize that opportunity presented to them.

To some, they saw men mocking
...these women by creating a hashtag #InternationalTwitterMensDay but to me I saw men addressing the issue and finding a means to be better men.

From @Wizarab10 's opening address to all the messages given by @UgwunnaEjikem , @DrOlufunmilayo , @MrOdanz , @BrianJDennis
@oloye__ and many others, their messages/advices kept on hitting on how men should be better men, what true masculinity means, every single advice is for them to be better at being at service to women.

Yesterday was supposed to be about them but it ended up being about being
... better men for women and the society at large. Men are practically living for women and children.

So, what will it take for women to be appreciative?
Why overshadow their good deeds with condemnation for their shortcomings, the shortcomings that women have too?
While feminists are whining about not having equality with men, men are giving themselves more responsibilities to be better for women.

If men were truly against equality, they want to be on their own lane and beat women in this competitive life, it would be like having a race
... between a goat and a cheetah.

In conclusion, gender competition is useless because men are not out there to outperform women for their own selfish interest, they are there doing it for women and children.

Women already have their own natural role (childbirth) which
...men can never understand.
Thus, why they are working hard to make childbirth and every other facets of life easier for women.

Appreciate men's act of service and not condemn them.
If we must tackle abuse, then it shouldn't be a gender thing because both genders are capable
...of it. There are mayn foundations attending to gender based violence for women and then condemn men for it.
Who's attending to children's abuse and who's condemning women for it since they're the most perpetrators of child abuse?

Appreciate men because they are awesome,
...they are heros, they are our providers and protectors.
They are carrying enough burdens already, don't add to it with your condemnation.

Igbos say; when you thank one for what he's done, he will do more.

I hope this message gives you a different perspective.

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It's time we have a body that actually listens to men even their silence.

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You can't claim that men are evil, that you don't feel safe around them and still blame them for not protecting you or other women when the need arises.

You have a sisterhood, women supporting women club where you end up creating a women against men world, yet you don't look out
...for each other. Your "women supporting women" motto is just a lip service.

A girl got harassed at the market, you blame men for not protecting her.

Take a census of the people at the market, you will most likely have more women than men. Why can't you blame the women who
... unlooked.

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Can we talk about God a little bit.
I'm not one to engage in Twitter theist/atheist arguments.

I've had enough encounter with God to doubt his existence.

Sometime ago, someone asked me how do I hear from but before I got back online, someone has already answered.
There are different ways you can hear from God, which are through;

* His word, the Bible
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I hear from God through the last three, the last two are always authentic.

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A man and woman could meet at a night club and decide
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In the morning when regret creeps in, the woman becomes a victim while the man becomes a predator.

To feminists, the woman automatically becomes
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Also, absolving the woman of any accountability for her
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Whenever you talk about a woman submitting to her husband, feminists will shout slavery, misogyny, dismantle patriarchy and throw insults around.

The fact is, we all are guilty of demanding submission from people directly or indirectly as long as we are responsible for them.
And that's perfectly fine and normal. Responsibility comes with authority.

Our parents are responsible for us and they shoulder that responsibility, reason why it hurts them badly when we rebel against them.

Same thing goes to older siblings who sacrifice a lot to take care of
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Some people decline executive positions in some organizations where they don't gain anything because of the responsibilities and when they do take such positions, submission from the floor members ought to be automatic even though they have a say.
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MEN AND WOMEN ARE UNIQUE IN THEIR OWN WAYS.

Men and women are different and have a uniqueness that's peculiar to them respectively.

Women's major contribution to the society is the birthing and raising of great men and women, which is the greatest calling ever.
This earns them respect, honor and adoration. This is the reason why they are celebrated 10 times in a year.

Men's major contribution to the society is provision, protection and nation building. Every beautiful and luxurious life we enjoy today is their doings.

Since time
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This brings me to the reason of this thread.

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A woman rejected a marriage proposal because she wasn't financially ready and the responses aren't funny.

I also share her sentiments and I've received "feminists are deceiving you people".

Well, I'm not feminist and I've never subscribed to feminism.

Perspective matters when
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Yes, I have a fear of walking into marriage with nothing, in fact goinh into relationship if I can't take care of myself first.

I may be a Patriarchy Princess but I enjoy being at the
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