The researchers in the megabucks autism-treatment-'n-cure projects like AIMS-2 don't even know what severe autism is from the inside. They're piddling around with eye contact and sociability. Excuse me, but THOSE ARE NOT THE PROBLEMS, DUDES.
You can't keep saying that you care about the autistic people who don't speak if they try to tell you what they want, but you won't #LISTEN. You're not 'speaking for those who can't speak for themselves'. You're silencing them.
You silence nearly every SPEAKING autistic person (the ones you say are merely quirky, as though their problems are necessarily slight just because they use mouth words); so it makes sense that you would want to silence the 'severe' people too.
Can I just talk about Bill Shat (@WilliamShatner) for a moment? Bill is one of those people who does fundraising for Autism Speaks, because he purportedly cares about the 'severe cases', the people who wear diapers. (For some reason, they always bring incontinence into it.)
So along comes a 'severe case', an autistic man who spent many years of his life unable to speak, abused and institutionalised, and who is... incontinent. And this man tells Bill that he isn't being helpful.
Bill Shat is enraged and accuses the autistic man of being a money-grabber and all sorts of other horrible things.
Anyway, this so-called money-grabber, who has high support needs, is in need of a wheelchair and Bill certainly ain't gonna be contributing, so if you have some dollars, pounds or Euro to spare, please donate!
If ir bothers you that Cal who is alive right now, isn't getting the support he needs, while people find it in their soulds to donate money on cures for our lack of eye contact and smalltalk, then link up to other activists who are fundraising for Cal, using the hashtag #FreeCal.
Remember how this thread started out, though? It's about autism cures. Cal, who is multiply disabled and definitely in need of medical support, wrote this.
Whaddya think, are donations towards a cure for autism the thing that autists like Cal need most?
Cal is also the person whose testimony on #ProneRestraint was featured in this short film. It was difficult for him to relive those countless incidents of restraint, each lasting several hours. He wants others to be spared the same suffering. #FreeCal
"Atypical behavior is not autism. It is a consequence of autism. It is surface markers by which what is underneath may be suspected, diagnosed, and investigated. Altering behavior doesn't alter autism."
It's #EDSAwarenessMonth and I am one of those people who bizarrely feels like I don't 'deserve' a diagnosis because I don't have a full house of Beighton symptoms and I am not as badly off as my friends, even though I subluxate my shoulders every night, live in constant pain...
...and have been worried for the last five years that I may dislocate my jaw.
Right now I am fundraising for a woman in my city whom I have never met who is dying from the cascade of health issues that comes from being medically gaslighted for so long (even though she worked in a hospital before)...
SUICIDE RISK: 3 6-year-old Autistic guy in Denver, Colarado. He's being evicted and he can't cope. He has nowhere to go. Couldn't earn enough for rent, couldn't find a place to stay. Who should he contact please? It's urgent.
That's 36, not 6.
I'm not American, but I have known him for many years, then lost contact. I now appear to be the only person left he's talking to. I said the @TheArcUS and @NationalADAPT may be able to help but I don't know if they do crisis help. Who should he contact? It's urgent.
Campaign starts TODAY: #AllowAACinTherapy. It's aimed at doctors, psychologists and other clinical professionals, and at the institutions that empower them to disempower disabled people. I have seriously had enough of this nonsense from them.
People with communication disabilities should not be expected to make appointments using a telephone. You should not have to register as a Deaf person to be allowed to use AAC.
When they speak about disabled children having "challenging behaviour", what does "challenging" mean? Why do they use THAT word? (Not a sarcastic question.) Do they believe that the child is "challenging" them like a drunk person in a bar challenges another guy to fight? Or what?
Or are they projecting the challenges (difficulties) they have in understanding or coping with a child's behaviour onto the child? Like "I'm out of money and it's a challenging situation to be in." So, the OTHER person, not the child, is the one feeling like it's a "challenge"?
There's a webinar coming up with a bunch of 'autism experts', about dealing with autistic children. A bevy of white guys presenting, incl. an autistic vet; and one brown man... And on the TOP of the list of topics is "challenging behaviour".
Some social skills could be explicitly taught so that people don't have to take so long to figure them out. Like this--this could be explicitly taught:
From my perspective, respect is a LOT more important than politeness. Politeness should stem from respect. And there are many times, I understand, that it is needed to just save your life, regardless of respect. It's used to de-escalate, and that's OK.
But...
I don't know why so many people are laughing at this. Oh yes, wait, I think I may know... It's because they're not autistic, and they don't know how to deal with someone who is trying her level best to make a rational case for something, because logic isn't important to them.
It's like Mr Thompson, who led the marching band at my school. I told him I wanted to be in the band. He laughed and said I can't be in the band. I asked why. He said, as though I was asking a ridiculous thing, "Girls can't be in the band." I asked why. HE WOULD NOT TELL ME.
But sure, AUTISTIC people are the ones with the broken brains. 🙄
The desire for logical, reasonable explanations is met with laughter by the Holy Wholesome Norrrmal People. Because logic is a deficit... or something.