Ladies,
Your man has a very important meeting later. But, he says/does something to upset you.
Which girl earns his commitment?
A: Immediately reacts, causing long involved discussion.
B: Says nothing, makes breakfast, irons his shirt, & waits after meeting to raise issue.
1/
Your man has a very important meeting later. But, he says/does something to upset you.
Which girl earns his commitment?
A: Immediately reacts, causing long involved discussion.
B: Says nothing, makes breakfast, irons his shirt, & waits after meeting to raise issue.
1/
The first girl is now adding stress to an already stressful day for her man.
She is most definitely not being supportive.
And she’s demonstrating a lack of trust in the relationship that it will continue to exist past his meeting.
She is telegraphing her needs come first.
2/
She is most definitely not being supportive.
And she’s demonstrating a lack of trust in the relationship that it will continue to exist past his meeting.
She is telegraphing her needs come first.
2/
The second girl is showing him the opposite:
•she wants to reduce his stress level
•she is supportive
•she trusts in the strength of the relationship
His needs, particularly in this important moment, come first.
3/
•she wants to reduce his stress level
•she is supportive
•she trusts in the strength of the relationship
His needs, particularly in this important moment, come first.
3/
Of course, sometimes girls can PRETEND they are doing the right thing, but actually aren’t.
These are the girls who go through the motions, but with clear passive-aggression.
4/
These are the girls who go through the motions, but with clear passive-aggression.
4/
For a man focused on his mission, this may look like the following:
She appears outwardly supportive (makes breakfast, irons shirt), but her attitude is either overtly or covertly negative.
Ex. “HERE. I made you breakfast.” (slams plate on table, lots of loud sighs)
5/
She appears outwardly supportive (makes breakfast, irons shirt), but her attitude is either overtly or covertly negative.
Ex. “HERE. I made you breakfast.” (slams plate on table, lots of loud sighs)
5/
Ladies, it’s important that if you’re going to ACT supportive, that you actually BE supportive.
There is no room for passive-aggressive behavior.
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There is no room for passive-aggressive behavior.
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If it helps to calm you down, focus on WHY you are supporting him in this moment.
Set aside whatever upset you.
Remind yourself of the importance of his meeting, but most especially remind yourself of his place in your life, and vice versa.
7/
Set aside whatever upset you.
Remind yourself of the importance of his meeting, but most especially remind yourself of his place in your life, and vice versa.
7/
When he succeeds at his meeting (or whatever was causing him stress), ALLOW HIM TO CELEBRATE HIS WIN.
It’s still not time for you to raise that issue, ladies.
There will be plenty of time for reasonable discussion when the moment has passed.
8/
It’s still not time for you to raise that issue, ladies.
There will be plenty of time for reasonable discussion when the moment has passed.
8/
Spend your time composing a *constructive* beginning to the conversation you want to have.
Think of solutions you can bring to the table and offer them when you have the opportunity to speak.
That way, you’re not simply complaining & bringing him problems.
9/
Think of solutions you can bring to the table and offer them when you have the opportunity to speak.
That way, you’re not simply complaining & bringing him problems.
9/
You’ll know the time is right to raise the issue calmly when he turns his attention back to you, after the stress of preparation & celebrating the win has passed.
Then,
1. Remove your clothes
2. Make a reasonable request to resolve the issue.
3. Suck his dick.
Win-win.
END
Then,
1. Remove your clothes
2. Make a reasonable request to resolve the issue.
3. Suck his dick.
Win-win.
END
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