I’m endlessly amused by trolls who accuse me of being a “doormat” because I’m a submissive woman.

I’m not a doormat.

And.

My Owner wouldn’t want me if I were, in fact, a doormat.

THREAD 1/
A doormat personality type is submissive to EVERYONE.

I am submissive to only ONE MAN, my Owner.

Everyone else can fork themselves right off.
2/
I have no trouble saying “no” to anything I don’t want to do for others.

In fact, my work *requires* me both to say no to clients often but also to command their respect.
For which I get paid.

A doormat could never do the work that I do.
3/
So I hear you saying, “Okay, you’re not a doormat professionally, but that doesn’t mean you’re not a doormat in your relationship!”

Well, it kinda absolutely does.

I don’t hide my personality from Him. I don’t hide my intelligence from Him. I don’t hide my opinions from Him.
4/
My service to Him includes all those things.
I am lucky & grateful to have an Owner who appreciates *me* and is willing to take my opinion into consideration.

That doesn’t mean I get what I want all the time.

He gives me what He decides I need, and that is more than enough.
5/
My service and submission is to Him, and Him only.
Read that again.

I am respectful to other men who have earned that respect.

But I’m not submissive to them.

And I’ll never be a doormat to anyone.

As it should be.

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24 Jun
Ladies,
Your man has a very important meeting later. But, he says/does something to upset you.

Which girl earns his commitment?

A: Immediately reacts, causing long involved discussion.

B: Says nothing, makes breakfast, irons his shirt, & waits after meeting to raise issue.
1/
The first girl is now adding stress to an already stressful day for her man.

She is most definitely not being supportive.

And she’s demonstrating a lack of trust in the relationship that it will continue to exist past his meeting.

She is telegraphing her needs come first.
2/
The second girl is showing him the opposite:
•she wants to reduce his stress level
•she is supportive
•she trusts in the strength of the relationship

His needs, particularly in this important moment, come first.
3/
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6 Jan
What’s it like to be submissive?

(Besides, awesome.)

Submission creates peace.

It amplifies the natural harmony between masculine and feminine.
1/
I am in my most feminine when He is leading and I am following.

The more He leads, the more deeply masculine He becomes.

And the easier it is for me to submit to Him.

A very real, positive reinforcement cycle.

2/
While I may be more of an over thinker than most girls (hamsters), all have fifty different things going on in their brain at any given time.
Issues with to-do lists, work, housekeeping, makeup, relationships, etc.

All of these tangled thoughts generate a level of anxiety.
3/
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2 Jan
The neat thing about being His “main” (well, one of the neat things) is that because I’m secure in my place, I’m only actually ‘competing’ with myself.

As in, how can I continue to improve myself to make His life better/easier/more fun?
1/
I’m not worried about getting replaced.

I am completely secure and at peace, whether He is with me or with someone else.

Not because I have Him “under control,” or wrapped around my finger but rather, it is entirely on ME whether I am serving Him to the best of my ability.
2/
I know that what I control is my own behavior.

There is always room for improvement, but I have set the bar high... for myself.

On purpose.

I knew from the outset that I would not do well as a #2, and I told Him exactly that.
3/
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14 Jul 20
How to be Supportive to your Man

I’ve posted quite a bit about the fact that a feminine woman should be ‘willing to support her man’ as part of the equation to reach high value status.

It’s a vague concept, and it seems like specific examples would be useful...

THREAD 1/
First, a high value man with a strong frame is not going to ask for your support.

He should *never* have to do that.

(Besides, you’ll *both* hate where that ends up, as it kills attraction.)
2/
Let’s start with some easy ways to support Him:

•Maximize your looks at all times.

If you’re in public, you’ll subtly increase His natural confidence by being His arm candy.

At home, you’ll increase His desire for you, which is a total win-win.
3/
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12 Jul 20
Why Should Women Be Submissive To Men?

Short answer:
Because it works.

THREAD 1/
Men and women have different strengths and abilities.
The root of nearly all intersexual problems occurs when one (or both) attempt to be something they aren’t.
A masculine woman will *always* be unhappy in a relationship.
So will a feminine man.
And they won’t understand why.
2/
Femininity and submissiveness are essentially equivalent.

Submissive women create the feelings of protectiveness and provisioning in men that are so craved by *every* woman.

Submission, when done correctly, is NOT manipulative.

It is simply the natural state of a woman.

3/
Read 7 tweets
10 Jun 20
I was asked, "Are lots of women really into rough sex (facef*cking, hair-pulling, choking, etc.)? Or they just won't admit it?" and I thought it would make an interesting discussion topic. (Thanks @OCBo9 )

Women and Rough Sex (NSFW)
THREAD 1/
Disclaimers:
a) I'm not writing *on behalf of* all women, so don't special snowflake me or gripe about generalizations;
b) I identify as a sub (submissive), but that's a relatively recent addition to my life after years of vanilla sex.

In other words, your results may vary.
2/
There are actually 2 parts to this subject:
1. What is rough sex?
2. Do women enjoy it?
The first is relatively easy to answer. Rough sex is typically man-in-control and physical. Hair pulling, throwing the girl around the bed, facef*cking, choking, BDSM, etc.
There's levels.
3/
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