For football lovers like me, this weekend is epic! The men's #CopaAmerica final between #Brazil and #Argentina on Saturday and the men's #EURO2020 final between #England and #Italy on Sunday. We know that domestic abuse is associated with men's tournaments. Let's take a look.
First: On/off the pitch, from managers to players to men who support them: patriarchy fuels a dangerous cocktail of toxic masculinity in football & many other men’s sports. Football tournaments didn't invent patriarchy. The latter drives the men’s game & the harm it takes home.
#Brazil: So egregious is the enabling and protection of football superstars in Brazil, “The Brazilian Football Association could likely field an entire team of active players accused or convicted of crimes related to gender violence or sexual assault.” bbc.com/sport/football…
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Perhaps most egregious: former Flamengo goalkeeper Bruno Fernandes de Souza, who served less than 1/3 of a 22yr sentence for ordering the murder of former lover Eliza Samudio, who was strangled & her body fed to dogs. Bruno continues to earn a living playing football.
"Clubs are organisations that can speak to the people a lot better than the government. They help create a culture, so when a...football club...accepts someone found guilty of violence against women, it says to the Brazilian people that it's acceptable,” Monica Sapucaia Machado.
#Argentina, 2 players with one of the country’s most known clubs--Boca Juniors--have been accused of domestic abuse--goalkeeper Augustin Rossi and Colombian forward Sebastian Villa. sportstar.thehindu.com/football/boca-… #CopaAmerica
This in a country where the number of women killed reached a 10-year high under coronavirus lockdown in 2020. #CopaAmerica2021

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#Italy: the league has been condemned for failing to act decisively enough vs sexism.

“We have always experienced the first rows as trenches. Women, wives and girlfriends are not allowed inside, so we ask them to sit from the 10th row back." #EURO2020

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This in a country where during lockdown, women who couldn't call a helpline or directly report domestic abuse had to resort to calling police emergency # & say: "I'd like to order a margarita pizza" which would alert operator to send round a patrol. #italy france24.com/en/live-news/2…
The #Italian League has been condemned for failing to act decisively enough against racism and antisemitism--not just from fans but by club officials. sbnation.com/2017/11/2/1655…
"If #ENG gets beaten, so will she."

During #England games in the 2002, 2006 and 2010 World Cup, incidents of domestic abuse rose by 38% when the team lost and rose by 26% when they won or drew, compared with days when there was no England match. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
Researchers from UK’s Lancaster University who analysed domestic violence figures from England’s games in those men's World Cups found that incidents of domestic abuse were 11% higher the day after an England match. #EURO2020 #ENG
This in a country where Refuge, a UK charity that operates a 24-hour national domestic abuse helpline, logged a 61% surge in calls to its domestic abuse helpline in England. theguardian.com/society/2021/m… #Euro2020Final
"It's coming home."

Whether #England is the home of football or not matters little to women and children whose abusers make home hell after major football games.

Let’s be clear though: it is not football that makes cisgender men abuse women and children. It is patriarchy,
Abuse “doesn’t happen by appointment. It happens all year round – it is a choice a perpetrator makes, stemming from power and control, from gender inequality, which misogyny and patriarchy helps perpetuate” Kim Manning-Cooper, Refuge head of communications refuge.org.uk/domestic-abuse…
The violence that goes home with the men’s game is a wholly-owned subsidiary of patriarchy. You would be naive to think that such violence is limited to women and children. #Euro2020Final #CopaAmerica2021
It is what fuels the boos when players take a knee and the racial abuse yelled at Black & players of colour; it is what fuels homophobic chants that are brushed off as “jokes.”
#EURO2020 #CopaAmerica
The abusive behaviour of superstars must be directly connected to the behaviour of abusers in the stands and in the pubs who watch them. The through line is patriarchy.

#EURO2020 #CopaAmerica
It is not football that makes cisgender men abuse women and children. It is not the alcohol those men consume while watching football that makes them hurt women and children. Win, lose or draw, the score doesn’t make a man beat a woman.

Patriarchy does. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
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10 Jul
Are you watching the epic football finals this weekend? Before today's #CopaAmericaFINAL and Sunday's #Euro2020Final, read my essay on domestic abuse and the men's game. tl:dr it's not the football, it's the patriarchy. #ENG #ITA #Brazil #Argentina
Patriarchy enables and protects the toxic masculinity that makes big tournaments and match days hell for too women and children. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f… #CopaAmerica #EURO2020
During the 2002, 2006 and 2010 World Cup, incidents of domestic abuse vs women rose by 38% when #England team lost and increased by 26% where England won or drew, compared with days when there was no England match.
Hence campaign 👇🏽 "If #ENG gets beaten, so will she." #EURO2020
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10 Jul
As useful as it is to know all of that, it is imperative to resist temptation of thinking that simply moving all football games to evening start times will end domestic abuse associated w/games. Or blaming just alcohol. This is about patriarchy. I explain feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
The violence that goes home with men’s football is a wholly-owned subsidiary of patriarchy. It is not football or the alcohol those men consume while watching football that makes cis men hurt women & children. It is patriarchy feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f… #CopaAmerica #euro2020
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10 Jul
I remember lists of queer players during the Women's World Cup. Where are the lists of openly gay and bisexual men's footballers in this weekend's #EURO2020 final and #CopaAmerica finals?
How when we know that at least 10 percent of any population belongs to the LGBTQ+ community, is there not a single out player in the men’s top leagues while the women’s game has a long history of openly gay players?

Patriarchy. That’s how. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
Sampdoria and Sweden star Albin Ekdal in 2019 on the lack of openly gay men in professional football. @ekdalalbin

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10 Jul
1. Fuck off with your whataboutery
2. I literally wrote an entire book about that you ignorant fuck
3. Fuck off some more
ICYMI, Tinman's whataboutery was to distract from the increase in domestic abuse associated w/ major football tournaments such as this weekend's #EURO2020 & #CopaAmerica finals. It is not football or drinking that makes cis men beat women. It is patriarchy
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On/off the pitch, from managers to players to men who support them: patriarchy fuels a dangerous cocktail of toxic masculinity in football as well as many other men’s sports. Football tournaments didn't invent patriarchy. The latter drives the men’s game & the harm it takes home.
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10 Jul
"If #ENG  gets beaten, so will she."
When #England played in 2002, 2006 & 2010 World Cup, incidents of domestic abuse rose by 38% when the team lost and rose by 26% when they won or drew, compared with days when there was no England match. Remember that ahead of #EURO2020  final
Moreover, researchers from UK’s Lancaster University found that incidents of domestic abuse were 11% higher the day after an #England match. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f… ##Eng #Euro2020Final #CopaAmericaFINAL
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9 Jul
"If #ENG gets beaten, so will she." Researchers have found that incidents of domestic abuse rose by 38% when the #England team lost and increased by 26% where England won or drew, compared with days when there was no England match. Remember that ahead of #EURO2020 final Sunday
“It’s coming home”: shorthand for confidence that #England men’s football team’s will bring back a trophy to where many think the game was born.

Patriarchy: even shorter explanation for the hell that male abusers create at home after major football games feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
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