I remember lists of queer players during the Women's World Cup. Where are the lists of openly gay and bisexual men's footballers in this weekend's #EURO2020 final and #CopaAmerica finals?
How when we know that at least 10 percent of any population belongs to the LGBTQ+ community, is there not a single out player in the men’s top leagues while the women’s game has a long history of openly gay players?

Patriarchy. That’s how. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
Sampdoria and Sweden star Albin Ekdal in 2019 on the lack of openly gay men in professional football. @ekdalalbin

Douglas Braga realised he could not carry on playing football and be an out gay man in #Brazil.

"It was a choice that either you're yourself, or you're a footballer. It just wasn't possible to be both." At 21, he quit football. #LGBTQ #CopaAmerica

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Patriarchy fuels the domestic violence I write about in my new essay. It is also what fuels the boos when players take a knee and the racial abuse yelled at Black and players of colour; it is what fuels homophobic chants that are brushed off as “jokes.” feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
In the 2019 Women's World Cup, the two teams with the most out athletes were in the final.

The #USA and #NED women’s teams each had five out lesbian and bisexual players apiece. outsports.com/2019/7/5/20683… h/t @rerutled #LGBTQ #Euro2020Final #CopaAmerica
If queer is the opposite of heteronormativity, the queerest--and joyously so--sporting environment I’ve witnessed live were the Women’s World Cup matches in Montreal in 2015. #EURO2020 #CopaAmerica 📷 @rerutled Mona surrounded by teenage girls with face paint in the colo
The stands were full of outsiders: women w/babies, teen girls-- rarely seen in televised men’s games--w/faces painted in colors of their teams & men there alone, all of us unburdened by the need to imitate a form of masculinity that the men’s game insists on as price of admission
There were no reports of abuse going home after the matches; no campaigns that warned that “If England is beaten, so is he,”; and the players on the pitch were there to play, not engage in bombastic flops and fake injuries.
It is time for men to learn from women how to play football.

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10 Jul
Are you watching the epic football finals this weekend? Before today's #CopaAmericaFINAL and Sunday's #Euro2020Final, read my essay on domestic abuse and the men's game. tl:dr it's not the football, it's the patriarchy. #ENG #ITA #Brazil #Argentina
Patriarchy enables and protects the toxic masculinity that makes big tournaments and match days hell for too women and children. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f… #CopaAmerica #EURO2020
During the 2002, 2006 and 2010 World Cup, incidents of domestic abuse vs women rose by 38% when #England team lost and increased by 26% where England won or drew, compared with days when there was no England match.
Hence campaign 👇🏽 "If #ENG gets beaten, so will she." #EURO2020
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10 Jul
As useful as it is to know all of that, it is imperative to resist temptation of thinking that simply moving all football games to evening start times will end domestic abuse associated w/games. Or blaming just alcohol. This is about patriarchy. I explain feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
The violence that goes home with men’s football is a wholly-owned subsidiary of patriarchy. It is not football or the alcohol those men consume while watching football that makes cis men hurt women & children. It is patriarchy feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f… #CopaAmerica #euro2020
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10 Jul
For football lovers like me, this weekend is epic! The men's #CopaAmerica final between #Brazil and #Argentina on Saturday and the men's #EURO2020 final between #England and #Italy on Sunday. We know that domestic abuse is associated with men's tournaments. Let's take a look.
First: On/off the pitch, from managers to players to men who support them: patriarchy fuels a dangerous cocktail of toxic masculinity in football & many other men’s sports. Football tournaments didn't invent patriarchy. The latter drives the men’s game & the harm it takes home.
#Brazil: So egregious is the enabling and protection of football superstars in Brazil, “The Brazilian Football Association could likely field an entire team of active players accused or convicted of crimes related to gender violence or sexual assault.” bbc.com/sport/football…
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10 Jul
1. Fuck off with your whataboutery
2. I literally wrote an entire book about that you ignorant fuck
3. Fuck off some more
ICYMI, Tinman's whataboutery was to distract from the increase in domestic abuse associated w/ major football tournaments such as this weekend's #EURO2020 & #CopaAmerica finals. It is not football or drinking that makes cis men beat women. It is patriarchy
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On/off the pitch, from managers to players to men who support them: patriarchy fuels a dangerous cocktail of toxic masculinity in football as well as many other men’s sports. Football tournaments didn't invent patriarchy. The latter drives the men’s game & the harm it takes home.
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10 Jul
"If #ENG  gets beaten, so will she."
When #England played in 2002, 2006 & 2010 World Cup, incidents of domestic abuse rose by 38% when the team lost and rose by 26% when they won or drew, compared with days when there was no England match. Remember that ahead of #EURO2020  final
Moreover, researchers from UK’s Lancaster University found that incidents of domestic abuse were 11% higher the day after an #England match. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f… ##Eng #Euro2020Final #CopaAmericaFINAL
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9 Jul
"If #ENG gets beaten, so will she." Researchers have found that incidents of domestic abuse rose by 38% when the #England team lost and increased by 26% where England won or drew, compared with days when there was no England match. Remember that ahead of #EURO2020 final Sunday
“It’s coming home”: shorthand for confidence that #England men’s football team’s will bring back a trophy to where many think the game was born.

Patriarchy: even shorter explanation for the hell that male abusers create at home after major football games feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
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