It’s really amazing to me how comfortable White women are with acting as if Black women don’t exist.
You can’t chronicle what Christian women leaders were doing to liberate/galvanize women in the pews and exclude BW- especially Renita Weems among others.
And I get this piece is about Barr’s book (which I’ve read by the way). But the article itself speaks to a much larger issue: Black women are largely excluded from these conversations and the work they’ve done wholly ignored.
Ain’t no way you gon tell me you’re having an honest conversation about how church women wrestle with gender roles and not include Renita Weems’ ENTIRE body of work. Like…women were actually reading her in groups and re-evaluating their whole lives. That’s part of THIS history.
You absolutely cannot discuss White women’s fight against complementarism without discussing their proximity to White men and racism.
This is why womanist theology has always mattered.
This is precisely what Delores Williams was getting at in *Sisters in the Wilderness*.
For her, White women aren’t Karen; they’re Sarah. They uphold systems of racial oppression while fighting for their own equality.
Several things are happening with White evangelical women right now:
1) They’re trying to grapple with how they could have voted for President “Grab Em by the P*ssy” and turn right around and march for women’s right the day after he was inaugurated.
Double minded and unstable.
2) The impact Rachel had in this space can’t be ignored. So many looked to her and her voice. Her passing has left a void many are trying to fill.
3) Emily Joy’s #ChurchToo and others exposing purity culture *and* the sham that is conversion therapy has evangelicals scrambling.
It’s not coincidental that many White evangelical women are pushing themselves to be at the forefront of conversations concerning the future of the church. Evangelicals are losing ground and looking funny in the light. This is the rebrand.
But as many White evangelical women are just coming to terms with the dangers of complementarianism, Black church women have been pushing back and teaching more liberative ways of being for decades.
To dismiss them and their work is racist AF.
While White women were trying to decide whether they could lead Bible studies at their churches, Black women were actually creating and publishing Bible studies and doing the heavy lifting of freedom and liberation.
We talk about about not needing to hear from White men but I kinda need White women to stop talking so much in this space, too.
Because they’re taking up space and not giving deference where it is deserved.
If you’re a White woman leading/writing in the Christian faith space and you’ve not critically engaged womanist theological works to the point they challenge your articulation of trajectories etc., you don’t deserve to be taken seriously.
I said what I said.
A few of you have asked for some book recommendations as an introduction of sorts to womanist theology. Here are three:
1) Just a Sister Away: Understanding the Timeless Connection Between Women of Today and Women of the Bible by Renita J. Weems
2) Sisters in the Wilderness: The Challenge of Womanist God-Talk by Delores S. Williams
3) White Women's Christ and Black Women's Jesus: Feminist Christology and Womanist Response by Jacquelyn Grant
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At the beginning of June, I reached out to some folks and told them about the book project I’m currently working on. Unlike my other trade press book projects that just need a proposal to get an offer, the publisher will need to see this completed project.
So I told them the resources I need to make it happen and asked them to support.
A few days ago, someone sponsored one of the theological commentaries I’m using and said, “thank you for asking us to support you. It means so much that you would allow us to hold you in this way.”
I don’t know why that hit me but it did. It reminded of something my LS said to me when I was venting about how hard certain moves are. “Candice, honestly, who knows you need help? You get frustrated because it’s hard but you don’t tell anybody that you don’t know how to do it.”
Y’all. This delta variant is serious and it will impact Black and Brown communities in the same ways, and possibly much more aggressively, the first wave did at the beginning of the pandemic.
Please get vaccinated.
As with any vaccine, it is possible to still contract COVID. However, the vaccines ensure that *if* you contract it, you are less likely to suffer the most dire symptoms, be hospitalized or die.
Also, please understand that while the vaccination rollout was dubbed “Operation Warp Speed”, that had nothing to do with the vaccines themselves. The science had been in development for decades and continued to be developed as we experienced other pandemics in recent years.
This morning, my cousin asked me why the statement “trans women are trans women” is wrong. She was genuinely asking because she didn’t understand why it’s wrong to say that trans women are born with male privilege.
I told her that, while all women experience womanhood differently, you must acknowledge that trans women are women. Full stop.
And to say trans women have/were born with male privilege completely negates how gender and sexuality (and other factors) impacted them growing up.
I told her too many cis women act as if trans women lived fully into heteronormative cismale identity and woke up one day and decided they wanted to be women and take the identity on/off as they see fit. That contradicts what they tell us about their journey and experience.
I navigated a depressive episode all of April and had a recent (unrelated) health scare that I’m still working through.
Days and nights were filled with tears for my mama. I miss her every day but, when things are wrong, I miss her even more.
This month, I’m employing more resources to help me navigate depressive episodes. While I’ve been in therapy, I’ve found a support group for folks living with depression that I’m looking forward to attending.
And while I’ll be having surgery this month, I’m learning to lean on people and release the anxiety of feeling like I’m a burden. The bright side is it means my home will be filled with guests as I get better.
Last July, Kev asked if we could chop it up on his podcast to discuss theology, Black women and sexuality. He didn’t hesitate to pay my full speakers bureau rate. The pandemic took all my 2020 engagements. What Kev did for me paid all my bills and covered my move to ATL in Oct.
Since then, I’ve been able to grow to him and his wife Melissa in very real ways and count them as friends.
I tell this story because @KevOnStage hasn’t just created opportunities for comedians to shine. He’s made a commitment to using his platform to amplify Black women, too.
I can’t tell you how many times Kev has discussed and been intentional about making sure sisters get into positions that can change the trajectory of their lives. That matters.
Many amazing opportunities came as a result of being on Kev’s podcast and I’m truly grateful.
Some dude just said to me that prisons are full of Black men whose fathers needed to cuss them out but didn’t. A mother messaged me and said she will talk to her children however she sees fit because it’s saving their lives. And this is where I leave you.
Be very clear. Whether you call your child a bitch ass, poor ass, skinny ass mf-er...whether you tell them you will break their necks, it will not stop White supremacy from doing what it wants.
Cussing your children and threatening/enacting violence against them does not push your children to be whole and well.
It does, however, ensure that they know they have no safe places in this world.