I looked at my computer screen to see who was coming in next:

96 years old, male

He walked in, standing tall & proud

Wearing a three piece, perfectly pressed suit

& a pure white turban

His eyes were tired with cataracts, but they still had a twinkle

1/7
He waited for me to offer a chair, before he sat down

He told me about his headaches & his dizziness & medications

& I assessed him & we planned what to do

“Where are you from, betta (daughter)?” he asked

We both had a connection in our roots

2/7
& we started conversing in #Punjabi

Sometimes I would get muddled & mix in #Urdu words

& he would chuckle & say, “It’s ok, betta, you speak our language really well”

He had fled with his family during the partition of #India

& so had my grandparents, during that time

3/7
“We were #refugees, betta” he said, as his eyes filled up with shiny tears

“We started from nothing, but He (and he pointed up towards the sky), He blessed us with everything”

He told me about the horrors & the blood shed

But then his face relaxed & smiled…

4/7
…as he told me about the helpers, those that shared food & water & blankets

“We are all God’s creatures” he said

“I am #Sikh, & you are #Muslim. You are still like my daughter. Why doesn’t the world understand, they (refugees) are just trying to keep their families safe?”

5/7
We looked at each other & fell silent for a few seconds

He got up to go

“Give your Abba ji (grandad) my deepest regards” he said

“Abba ji passed away a few years ago” I replied

& he pointed to the sky

“You ask Him to give your Abba ji my regards” he said…

6/7
…as he put his right hand over his heart

A sign of sincerity & respect, in our culture

As he left, he made me think

As humans, we have so much more in common than our differences

& it is these connections that remind us of our humanity & our duty to help others*

7/7
*as always, details have been changed to maintain confidentiality, whilst not taking away from the message of the story

#RefugeesWelcome #GP #NHS

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12 Oct 20
When I first qualified as a #GP

An elderly man came to see me

He mentioned a symptom & we addressed it

He then sat there for a few seconds

His records showed he came the same time every yr

With a simple symptom

“What’s really bothering you?” I asked

“Your eyes seem sad”

1
He told me that every year he came to the drs

He would mention a made up symptom to see if they would listen or take him seriously

If he didn’t think they did, he left

It was the anniversary of his son’s death & he never knew what else to do

2
We sat there & talked about his son

Sometimes sitting in silence

He had a broken heart that couldn’t be fixed, he said

I nodded & listened -

I often think about that day

Talking about heartache & pain is a big deal - patients might want to “test us” before they trust us

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19 Sep 20
We’ve heard moaning from a well paid leader today

So here is a list of things I have seen my patients struggle with:

Going without meals so their children don’t

Not getting their prescriptions for important medications, like asthma inhalers

1/4
Missing school not having sanitary products

Walking 13 miles daily for work, not being able to afford bus fare

Despairing they’ve walked 6 miles to the food bank & it is closed, having not eaten for 2 days

Giving up work because childcare costs more than what they earn

2/4
Repaying a weekly fee in council rent arrears, whilst being homeless & not having any money left over for food

Sex work to pay the bills

Pawning their wedding ring to pay rent

Refusing a recommended hospital admission because they don’t get sick pay

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