THREAD: Talked to a married guy yesterday who reached out to me.
He and his wife are having sex 1-2 times a month. They both had a desire for a big family, so they have 4 kids under 9 years old.
His wife is unsure about things suddenly. She's having a mid-life crisis.
He and his wife are having sex 1-2 times a month. They both had a desire for a big family, so they have 4 kids under 9 years old.
His wife is unsure about things suddenly. She's having a mid-life crisis.
Guy tells me he wouldn't put up with this normally, but his wife was Sexually abused when she was young, and this makes him feel like he can't push for sex in the relationship, or he's an insensitive jerk.
Meanwhile his wife is going out with friends and avoiding responsibility
Meanwhile his wife is going out with friends and avoiding responsibility
More info: Guy says he's out of shape. He's busy running a cool, successful company making good money.
He says he did use porn as an outlet, but has shut that down because it only made everything worse.
His wife is just trying to come to terms with being a wife and mother...
He says he did use porn as an outlet, but has shut that down because it only made everything worse.
His wife is just trying to come to terms with being a wife and mother...
He's living almost an Asexual existence, trying to take care of his kids and keep his family together while his wife figures herself out.
My take:
He's a bad leader. She's doing what she wants because she can.
We don't get what we deserve in life. We get what we tolerate.
My take:
He's a bad leader. She's doing what she wants because she can.
We don't get what we deserve in life. We get what we tolerate.
His wife thinks she wants a break from kids and and husband - but she is (and he is) incapable of CRITICAL THINKING.
ROAD TO NO WHERE
Left up to the wife she'll program her life to get her Simping husband to do what she wants, and rob herself of everything she actually needs.
ROAD TO NO WHERE
Left up to the wife she'll program her life to get her Simping husband to do what she wants, and rob herself of everything she actually needs.
She needs him to ravage her body. She needs him to lead by example and get his ass to the gym.
She needs him to tell her "hell no" and watch him walk out and be dangerous
She needs to have a reason to put on a sexy dress and vie for his attention
He needs to ride her like a Mule!
She needs him to tell her "hell no" and watch him walk out and be dangerous
She needs to have a reason to put on a sexy dress and vie for his attention
He needs to ride her like a Mule!
He needs to never be needy or apologetic about wanting sex... He needs to WANT her, but not care about timing.
He needs to rebuild his mission and his frame.
He needs to be a man and needs the red pill!
He needs to rebuild his mission and his frame.
He needs to be a man and needs the red pill!
Honest confession:
I'm a pro-family Mormon return missionary...
I hesitate plugging guys into the red pill because some times it's all about picking up new women and marriage sucks... And I never want to cause a divorce.
Yet if he doesn't grow a pair and lead its over anyway
I'm a pro-family Mormon return missionary...
I hesitate plugging guys into the red pill because some times it's all about picking up new women and marriage sucks... And I never want to cause a divorce.
Yet if he doesn't grow a pair and lead its over anyway
It is crazy but this dude's wife would be Happier, and he would if he discovered the 3 ways back until his woman's heart by @alpharivelino
Reading about Dominant Polarity from @polarityperfect or @guideforlovers might give him the guts to change something.
Reading about Dominant Polarity from @polarityperfect or @guideforlovers might give him the guts to change something.
He needs @beamanforreal to school him on frame and relationship leadership, not Simping...
Do you need the red pill to save your marriage?
I'm different ways and for different reasons it saved mine!
Do you need the red pill to save your marriage?
I'm different ways and for different reasons it saved mine!
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