You: I'm the man. I got this. Any girl would be lucky to have a guy like me.
Also you: She doesn't care about me. She is all about her. I need to find someone who appreciates me. I'm done.
Sound familiar?
This was me for years!!
The fact is that she probably desperately wants you. There's a lot going on... And another fact is that you probably feel this way, as pissed off as you do because you WANT HER.
And it makes you so mad to feel like she doesn't want you as much as you want her. 🤬🤬🤬
But here's the thing dude -
*You might have amazing pick up game
*You might give other dudes great relationship advice
*You might make great money, be super business savvy
*You might be the man, the center of attention of any room or party you walk into
But you suck at THIS...
And the fact that you are the man, the Alpha in every other situation in life only makes this sense of "I'm Done, forget her, on to the next one" WORSE.
SO YOU TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT
The problem can't be you, right?
But this keeps happening. So the problem must be WOMEN.
Aah - Perfect! You found the #redpill, where everybody tells you what you were hoping to hear.
The problem IS women. It isn't you.
But I call bullshit.
You develop skill, pick up game, bus savvy, ecommerce strategy, everything - but you can't master a long term relationship?
The fact is - I AM YOU.
I have failed, it has sucked. I only stayed married because I'm Mormon - and you aren't, so you can bail and just find another girl to bang...
But that has a cost. What about kids? What about becoming your very best?
What if you leveled up?
What if your girlfriend or wife:
*wanted sex whenever you do
*wanted it sometimes 3, 4 times / day
*was excited, spontaneous and fun, just like when you started dating
*rarely if ever disrespected you, and when she did, she would actually apologize
*honored your leadership
Without getting too long, my wife today once divorced me. A massive thing for a Mormon woman with 4 kids at the time to do. (we now have 6)
She told me to my face that I disgust her, that the thought of me touching her was repulsive...
This was after years of messed up marriage
Years of me Simping for sex and never getting enough.
Years of me feeling like she doesn't appreciate me, while I was making millions.
Years of me telling myself how lucky other women would feel to be with me.
But that got me nowhere with her.
There's a lot of awesome content on how to pick up women.
There's a lot of good stuff about what women are like, or why / how they are frustrating.
There's amazing content on how to improve your sex life.
Not too much content on mastering long term relationships.
Options:
You can try to figure it out (trial and error)
You can say screw it and decide not to do LTRs
You can get philosophical and try to understand why and how - and just get more pissed off at women
OR
You can learn how & have the relationship you want 75-95% of the time!
This is what I Tweet about:
How you can stay in a committed, long term relationship, and (over time) turn your relationship into one where she wants you as much, as often or more than you want her. She's staying fit, competing for your attention.
Getting to this place is hard
You can't quit at the 90 yard line or you lose all your progress.
You will be pissed off at me when stuff doesn't work.
Note: if she is the cheating type, I can't help. No personal experience with that.
You have to be willing to make changes.
Laying in bed, looking at porn pissed off that she's up early paying your bills or getting your kids ready for school instead of boning you - won't get you what you want.
But - I promise no matter how much baggage or damage in your past
You can start today and turn it around and be happier than you ever thought.
She desperately NEEDs you to WANT her desperately
She despises the thought you NEED her
This will require practice and patience
(but the rewards are overwhelmingly amazing, frequent, coonected sex)
Step 1: Follow Me on here.
I don't have a course yet, I don't have a website or anything else. I do this for free
Step 2: follow the accounts that I followed over a 10-year span:
You need a mission. Without a Mission, you ARE disgusting!
A dude who just wants sex from his wife all the time, and sits around, unclean, nothing to do, pissed off he's not getting it... That is creepy and nasty. 🤢
Your mission is who you are ALL-IN on becoming.
It will get better if you lead, and get better.
Your relationship will become INCREDIBLE if you lead, and become incredible.
No time to waste - let's goo!
The relationship you want depends on you! (and you have to invest time to learn how)
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In 2006 I had been building mid to high end homes, about 100 per year. At 29 years old I was flying high, had just missed being on The Apprentice with Donald Trump
Lots of people could feel housing getting pretty frothy. Somehow getting your 29 year old buddies approved for a $600K construction loan on stated income felt "off", but when in Rome, right?
I didn't like it - but there were more and more people getting in, so we kept going
I needed a pivot, and had met a guy a few years older than me doing commercial real estate. He was polished to my rough around the edges. He was connected and patient. I'm scrappy and forceful. We became fast friends.
Your long term relationship will be set up one of three ways:
1. You are in control, she wants to please you above all else. She can't get enough sex. 2. Back and forth, cat and mouse, almost competing for control. 3. She is in control. Sex is your reward for decoding her needs.
Her greatest desire, she desperately wants you in control, to submit to you.
This takes patience. You have to be willing to sacrifice sex for a week in exchange for sex anytime you want.
Your mission and frame must be bullet proof. You have to be able to take it or leave it.
You better value your own time, because if you don't, and she thinks you are available whenever she wants, she won't be.
She wants to feel special when you take a break from your mission to give her the business...
She will flash you in public, start dressing up in lingerie...
Stay focused on your mission instead of Simping around for sex like a puppy waiting for a treat
Then, when you know 100% you cannot have sex because of your wife's schedule, go all in on desire.
She needs to leave the house in 20 minutes. No chance anything you do turns into sex.
Normally you wouldn't aggressively hug, kiss, smack her ass, come up behind her and grab her from behind, even push her against the wall and let her know you are turned on when she's leaving.
This is when you go all in.
Damn babe, you look good, don't leave, I want your body, etc. Even be a little handsy? You don't have to leave to go to lunch with your sister... Skip lunch! (knowing she can't - youcre showing her desire)
You might think your wife or girlfriend doesn't like or want sex - but what if you are part of the problem?
"No - I'm different, I tell her I want it to be good for her!"
All you are doing is adding to her pressure and frustration.
Why is Noone talking about this?
Guys talk about sex. Guys watch porn. Girls do too, but if a guy has sex shame it is worse for a girl. And unless she's a slut (who likely has no problem with having an orgasm), that hot, healthy, normal girl you married might not know this stuff
You are the man, you are the Alpha - so you can kick her to the curb in favor of the next perfect combo of hot, shy, non-slutty, genetically perfect freak in the sheets / lady in the streets (good luck)
My buddy (an Alpha) was out with his wife. She felt she needed to go home to check on their 13 year old daughter. He said "no".
Finally his wife can't reach their daughter and leaves. Daughters appendix had burst, she passed out.
Another example:
My 16 year old son hanging with new friends. My wife's spidy senses get going. I tell her it's fine. She busts open my sons back pack and finds vape stuff, cbd, etc.
We cancel those friends - now my son is on full scholarship at a great school.
Women = smarter
Unpopular opinion:
*Men are smarter than women.
After paying cash for an income property, my wife wants to play it safe. (8 years ago) I say hell no.
We take a mortgage against the property against her instinct and buy 4 more rental properties.
THREAD: Talked to a married guy yesterday who reached out to me.
He and his wife are having sex 1-2 times a month. They both had a desire for a big family, so they have 4 kids under 9 years old.
His wife is unsure about things suddenly. She's having a mid-life crisis.
Guy tells me he wouldn't put up with this normally, but his wife was Sexually abused when she was young, and this makes him feel like he can't push for sex in the relationship, or he's an insensitive jerk.
Meanwhile his wife is going out with friends and avoiding responsibility
More info: Guy says he's out of shape. He's busy running a cool, successful company making good money.
He says he did use porn as an outlet, but has shut that down because it only made everything worse.
His wife is just trying to come to terms with being a wife and mother...