I mentioned at the beginning that I had major #ImplicitBias when we first met @TheKeeleyJones. Since then, she has become one of my FAVORITE characters, for many reasons.
There is so much more to her than what is on the surface. She epitomizes don't judge a book by its cover.
Funny I reacted to her initial entrance in that way as I have often been told I am too bubbly/ enthusiastic to be taken seriously or seen as a professional. Goes to show you how these unconscious stereotypes can influence all of us, even when we have been on the receiving end.
One reason I really like her is that she showcases something that was another theme in Episode 6, how to help ppl become the best they can be. She is honest, astute, obviously has an extremely high EQ, and pushes people outside of their comfort zones to be the best they can be.
She is also the BEST cheerleader. She looks beyond peoples (sometimes tough) exteriors and is so authentic in how she interacts with others. She is able to bring out the best in people by seeing them how SHE sees them. It is an incredible skill, and she models it so well.
Some other great ex. of her doing this? Her unexpected friendship with powerhouse #RebeccaWelton. Focusing on the players who need the most help with their public personas. Getting @TheRealRoyKent a football punditry gig when he is still not convinced coaching is his thing.
Now let's talk @TheRealRoyKent and what he has added as asst coach for @AFCRichmond. @TedLasso leadership has been pretty consistent throughout: be positive, encourage everyone to be the best person they can be, and you will get the best out of everyone
(Except for that brief stint when he reveals Led Tasso, more on that later...but I digress)
Back to @TheRealRoyKent arrival as Asst. Coach. His style is quite the contrast to Ted. Previously, Ted had created a harmonious team environment for the team with the exception of bringing back @TheJamieTartt, perhaps bc he realized they needed a jumpstart, despite team tensions
But #TedLasso style of trying to get Jaime back into the good graces of the team involved trying to unite the team against a common enemy, the infamous #LedTasso. Or when he tries at the charity event in Season 1 to get @TheRealRoyKent to see his younger self in @TheJamieTartt.
These can be effective strategies, yet as a leader u cant use the same strategies w everyone. Exceptional leadership requires innovation, creativity, and sometimes, a different style for success. It sometimes requires brining in ppl to fill roles u may not be able to fulfill.
Bottom line: @TedLasso uses a leadership technique of trying to find the good in everyone, find the positive, and make everyone the best they can be by becoming better versions of themselves. This can be a very effective technique. BUT it does not work for everyone!
When @TheRealRoyKent rejoins as asst coach, he is drawn in by @TedLasso's effective strategy of reminding him how much he loves the game. He then finds a way to re-energize Captain Isaac McAdoo by reminding him of the same (also why can't I find a twitter account for him?!).
And @TheRealRoyKent does this by taking the @AFCRichmond captain to play in a game where he is playing with exceptional footballers who best him, and are not in any league, but playing for fun! Reminding him to get out of his own head and enjoy the game. A new strategy!
(TBH a brilliant strategy by @TedLasso to re-energize @TheRealRoyKent and bring him back into the game, while also fixing his Captain problem. See how there are lots of ways to lead? You just have to find the right strategies for each person based on their personalities!)
So what happens when @TheRealRoyKent comes back as coach? @TheJamieTartt is struggling as a player. Despite his exceptional skills, he is not playing his best game. While he has become a part of the team by "playing well with others" he is not performing up to his highest level.
Knowing him well, @TheRealRoyKent sees in @TheJamieTartt an internal struggle, trying to live up to the expectations of being a part of a functional well oiled team and gain their trust, while suppressing some of his personality. It is having a direct impact on his performance.
After a long phase of reminding @TheJamieTartt how much he dislikes him, and by refusing to coach him, @TheRealRoyKent tells Jamie to be what he needs to hear to be the best player he can be. Be yourself on the field, when appropriate. There is a time and place.
When given the opportunity to be himself, in the appropriate moment, @TheJamieTartt is able to deliver. @TedLasso brought @TheRealRoyKent in to coach the team in a way he was not able to. With @TheCoachBeard (& @Natethekitman although more on him in a diff thread) Jamie succeeds.
So I now come to the point of this thread. There are many ways to lead. There are many strategies to lead. The best leaders know how to use their skillsets and tailor them to the team they are leading.
They also know how to bring in ppl to make them better leaders by having diverse ideas and styles. @TedLasso so far has done an impressive job of many of these, and he also makes a point to LISTEN. He respects those he works with, and it shows in his leadership style.
I leave you w a final thought, @TedLasso said it best when he said "#WomanUp" bc "Y’all been manning up for a while, and look where that’s got you.” To be a successful leader, be nimble, flexible, open-minded, innovative, & surround urself with people who think differently than u
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Brief #covid19 reminder thread. I know we are 18+months into this thing. And URIs are back and ppl are getting non-covid19 illnesses. BUT covid is still here and it’s spreading fast.
If you feel any symptoms. Do not go to work, don’t go to that social event, get yourself tested and quarantine until your test comes back negative. If you are unvaccinated and were exposed, quarantine for the amount of time recommended. Why may you ask?
Well if your test comes back positive, think of all people you may have infected.
Your colleague has cancer but you don’t know, and is now at risk for contracting #covid19 even though they got vaccinated.
I want to share a brief reflection on perspective. A🧵 Many times in my life I have been told that I am too bubbly, too verbose, too excitable, too loud... too much. I have been told to speak softer, speak less, not show my enthusiasm, not show my excitement...its unprofessional.
I once attended a talk by the brilliant @LaurieBaedke who said (and I paraphrase here) "There are people who want you to put @SPANX your personality...those are not your people." We all nodded & applauded, but recently I had a moment that opened my eyes to what she really meant.
I was with some colleagues the other day, and we started talking about some of the initiatives I was working on @UICancerCenter@IMPACT4HC@WIMSummit and one of the women said "Do you see how excited she gets talking about this?! This is why we love working together!"
I did a @fox32news w @SylviaFOX32 on the new @US_FDA approval of Pfizer today. Interview link to follow. I made an analogy that I want to mention here.
People say it’s their personal choice to get vaccinated. Which I understand. I want to make a comparison here. A brief 🧵
In the US, it is legal to drink alcohol if you are over 21. You can drink as much as you want. It is your choice. But you cannot get into a car and drive if you are inebriated. Why is that? Because we are members of a society.
If your car were to hit someone else or damage property, you would be responsible. Also, you would be arrested because it is against the law to drive when intoxicated, even if you never hurt anyone else. Why is that a law when it’s your personal choice to drink alcohol?
A lot of people are asking me how I talk to people about getting vaccinated. I'll share a short thread here. This is by all means not all encompassing so please share your own experiences and tips below!
The first thing I always do is I try to find out the "Why?" My first question is always "Would you mind telling me why you haven't gotten the vaccine yet?" But I always ask in a neutral non accusatory way. You don't want to put the person on the defensive.
Next, listen. This is KEY. Let the person explain why they haven't gotten it yet. This is so so important. People are less likely to listen to what you have to say if you don't listen to what their concerns are.
I haven’t been posting much original content lately bc, tbh, I’ve been a bit burned out. And school is about to start. But I’ve been seeing some wacky posts and theories lately, some from “respected” HCW who, I personally feel, have become more contrarian for personal gain.
1. Regarding whether masks work…I can’t believe we are still having this discussion. Surgeons have used masks for years for infection control. And re:#COVID19 the data is there. For those calling for placebo controlled trials, those would be unethical.
2. About kids and masks. Ppl r worried kids development will be stunted. I argue not being able to attend in person school when #covid19 spreads bc kids aren’t masking is a bigger developmental issue. We know #masksWork to keep kids in school.
Me: Ok, I can get you set up for MyChart now and...
Pt: Doc doc doc, you don't understand. I don't have a computer, I don't USE computers. I'm here now, sign me up! I don't TRUST computers, never have! You have a computer there, sign me up!
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Me: Ok, let's troubleshoot. Let's see if we can sign you up on one of the links from our resource.
Spend the next 10 minutes surfing through the sites, not being able to find a spot
Pt: Doc, it's ok, I'll come back next week and you can sign me up then!