Many feminized men do not like the word "Frame" because they project their own meaning onto it. In their minds they think men who control their women are power hungry devils. And that "True love" is based on shared admiration and not power dynamics.
But while they demonized the word "Frame" they also will admit that men must be leaders over their women. But even though they admit men must be leaders they fear giving men power tactics to project masculine authority.
What is frame?
Frame is power. It is power over self and power over the woman. A woman wants to be with a man who understands power dynamics. A woman wants a leader. And good leadership requires a level of distance between leader and follower.
This is where feminized men begin to feel uneasy. Why? Because while they admit men should be leaders, they also celebrate men to "Be themselves" and "Open communication" in romance. These are feminine frame. To these men, emotional distance is abuse.
Is emotional distance abuse? No. It reaffirms authority and allows the distance necessary for a woman to fall into qualification mode to her man. Attention is reward to women. And a man who finely measures out attention begins to increase his power.
"Absence makes the heart fonder" is a great saying. A woman needs to emotionally figure out her man and this requires him to be emotionally distant. The more distant a man becomes, the more his woman will fantasize about him.
What feminized men do not realize is that the closer a man becomes to his woman emotionally the more she distances herself from him. A man who is emotionally dependent on his woman inspires innate fear and anxiety in her. Why?
Because a woman craves a rational protector to compliment her own emotional dependency from her biological vulnerable state. This is why men who are close/emotional friends with their women are irresponsible and ABUSIVE.
The more a man acts like a woman in romance the crueler and more abusive he is to the woman. The matching of polarity incites the woman into animal fear. Sensitive men create careful women. The woman bears frame because the man shrugs it.
And since a woman wants a leader, she does not want a friend. For a follower to trust her leader she must trust his confidence in his reality. This is frame. A man who bears frame constructs the reality that surrounds his woman. SHE EXISTS IN THE WORLD HE CREATED.
This reassures her since women need masculine frames to surround their consciousness to feel at ease emotionally. A woman wants to join a man strong reality and not the reverse. Unframed men doubt their authority which weakens their world thereby sending their women into orbit.
Frame is creating a strong game for a woman to want to play. It means to project supreme confidence in that reality. This "Confident projection" is power dynamics based on behaviorism. Low expression increases authority. Women respect men the less they express themselves.
This is another reason that feminized men are irresponsible when they encourage men to "Be themselves" and encourage men to express their personalities. They are conditioning men to surrender the power gamed through low expression and grooming men to be emotionally dependent.
Is frame abusive? No. Being unframed is abusive. And encouraging men to shrug frame is transferring power from men to women which is further increasing feminism. Soft masculinity account/ feminized men are the ones giving power to the feminist establishment.
The Wall Speaks was written because of the hyper feminization in our times due to fatherlessness. Frame is nearly extinct because men fear the power in themselves and listen to the women who lead them into slavery. And feminized men are the biggest slave traders of our times.
Depression comes for each man on occasion. At times a man will feel weak, lonesome and at odds with himself. Maybe he will begin to hate himself and will doubt his own reality. In his head he may think "What is the point?" And will feel unmotivated in his life.
At times I will get depressed and lose motivation. I will feel overwhelmed by a negative viewpoint and feel that my life is sinking instead of rising. This can bring me into a mood that seeks comfort over challenge because any more challenge feels disheartening.
How a man can transition from "Nice guy" to framed man.
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What does it mean to be nice? It means to reassure others of their emotional doubt through kindness. The more men are conditioned to be in emotional doubt, the more they will rely on the kindness of others for their own sense of self.
Most times when a man is "nice" to other men is because niceness is a display of harmlessness. It is a way to signal to other men that he is in a submissive state that is non-threatening to their sexual selection.
Why a man should not take rejection in romance personally.
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All men have been sexually rejected one time or another. A man may hope for an interaction with a woman and become hurt when it does not realize. He will feel hurt and will question himself. His self-esteem may lower because of being rejected. His confidence may shatter.
What does it mean to take rejection personally? It means to be emotionally affected by the rejection of our sense of self. And this rejection of self can cause a man to doubt his sense of attractiveness to women. This can cause him to sour in emotion and spike a feeling of pain
A man will catch feelings for a woman. If a man is human than he will have some feelings for a woman after being in a relationship for a while. But the key thing this thread will discuss is how to keep emotional distance and low feelings for a woman.
Feelings build based on sentiment and emotional attachment through reliance on validation. A man will begin to have feelings for a woman because he begins to romanticize her apart from other women. The more special a man makes a woman in his mind, the greater the feeling.
A man may wonder what to do when he catches his woman cheating. When a woman is disloyal and betrays a man can cause him deep pain from emasculation. Men hold great pride that deserves greater respect by women. OUR PRIDE IS HOLY AND A WOMAN WHO CHEATS PROFANES THAT GLORY.
So, what should a man do when he catches his woman cheating? Let us define "Cheating" -- There are levels to this. A woman who flirts with other men is cheating on her man. She is disrespecting him by pretending she is available for sexual access. She gets off the attention.
A common issue with unframed men in their relationships with their women is that the women control the sex. These women will frequently deny and reject their men sexually with various excuses.
"I have a headache" "I am not in the mood" "I do not feel attractive tonight" -- blah blah blah. These are common phrases that women use to slide out of their responsibility to supply their men sex. These women are not sexually aroused by their men and feel burdened by sex