Perhaps the violence displayed between #WillSmith and #ChrisRock at #Oscars2022 was “scarier than a Southern Baptist Convention” because it was an open display of the outcome of four centuries of violence by Southern Baptists on bodies, minds and souls of African descent.
It was #ChrisRock’s bow to white patriarchy by undercutting a sharp Black woman’s hair and calling her less than a woman in front of billions of people.
It was #ChrisRock’s choice to belittle a human being with a disability (alopecia). The roots of white supremacy do not consider the disabled human, therefore they are unprotected from humiliation.
It was embedded in #WillSmith’s trauma triggered response. Will was abused by his father. That abuse was likely generational; tracing back to the trauma of plantation beatings, whippings, family separation, Jim Crow terror, and grief. Now Smith holds that trauma in his own body…
And we all saw the outcome of body trauma. And it shook us…
Because we were watching internalized violence spill out on an international stage.
And no one knew what to do. So, they did what we have done in this nation since 1619–nothing. Literally, no-thing. #Oscars2022
I have watched the responses—the White women’s calls for criminal prosecution, the Black women’s protection of #WillSmith saying they hope their husbands would respond the same way. Neither of these paths get us to peace or justice—and that is what we all want. #Oscars2022
The US is the most violent and incarcerated nation on the planet. Violence dehumanizes. Dehumanization is our norm. We dehumanize when we criminalize. And we dehumanize when we justify and accommodate violence because we lack hope for the healing of our trauma. #Oscars2022
There is another way! There is a way that humanizes all. There is a way that holds the complexity of trauma-infused flesh and trauma-infused families and trauma-infused communities living inside constantly trauma-inducing white patriarchal society. #Oscars
The journey of this life is NOT to be perfect. It is to be radically reconnected to God, self, others, across genders, between ethnicities, between nations and to the rest of creation. Disconnection got us to that slap.
Rather than asking how #WillSmith and #ChrisRock should be punished, we must ask what they need to be reconnected to their own humanity and the human value of the other.
And, How do we transition from a white patriarchal retributive society to the Beloved Community?
“And so it is not surprising that Black people, who have had life, land, and labor stolen for generations disproportionately make up those who are impacted by violence.” 2/
- Jamila Hodge, @EJUSA
“And in thinking about the issue of safety, what we know is that safety is more than the absence of violence. It's the presence of community wellbeing; it is thriving communities." 3/ - Jamila Hodge, @EJUSA
In this e8, The Queen want to unite the Commonwealth to oppose Apartheid, but she must get the one holdout to sign on first—Margaret Thatcher. Thatcher won’t budge. 2/ #VotingRightsAct#thecrown
Round after round the Queen’s men bring her edited versions of the coalition’s statement. Each time she whips out her red pen sniping, “No. No. No.” 3/ #VotingRightsAct#thecrown
I gave first copy to my mother, Sharon Lawrence Harper, an incredible writer in her own right. She’s been my partner in this family research journey and is the one who discovered our likely connection to Fortune Game/Magee.
But, I don’t understand #brinksmanship with the US debt—especially when your own party is the ran up the tab. US Debt is used as a pawn in a political game. But it’s not a game. Failure to pay or extend limit could tank our fragile economy. #GOPDomesticTerrorists#DebtLimit
#Drumroll Today I revealed the cover of my next book, Fortune: How Race Broke My Family And The World—And How To Repair It All!!! (forthcoming @BrazosPress Feb 8, 2022)