I would advise you to do some research into the transitional process and the availability of transitional healthcare in your area, as well as make contact with transgender groups in your location.
If you need signposting to groups then drop me a DM and I will find you somewhere you can speak with trans women and work things out. Lived experience counts for so much and having the opportunity to speak to people who have done it will be vital to you understanding yourself.
This will likely be the first of many hard conversations you have about transitioning. There is no easy way but, if you are sure it is right for you, then make an appointment and be brave.
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Sorry to say this, but I almost guarantee that those pricks are transphobic about you too, even if it is to a lesser degree. It's just you found them out & they are deflecting it onto the other person. I also have no doubt they will have more vitriol toward the louder person too.
People have a tendency to see being trans, in the same way meat eaters see being vegan.
It's a difference of choice in their mind. If a vegan is preachy about their choices, people are dicks in return, because they know it's objectively correct, but there's cognitive dissonance.
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It's early days, & I honestly think you are over-thinking it. Meet up with her, see what happens!
I am a firm believer that some things just happen naturally & relationships are one of them. Life is all about sharing connections with people - so relax... enjoy the process.
If there are potential roadblocks that you foresee being a problem then just take it slow, there's no rush. If you are to share your lives together, it's probably best you both qualify from your studies. In fact, that is what is for the best for both of you, regardless.