Sorry to say this, but I almost guarantee that those pricks are transphobic about you too, even if it is to a lesser degree. It's just you found them out & they are deflecting it onto the other person. I also have no doubt they will have more vitriol toward the louder person too.
People have a tendency to see being trans, in the same way meat eaters see being vegan.
It's a difference of choice in their mind. If a vegan is preachy about their choices, people are dicks in return, because they know it's objectively correct, but there's cognitive dissonance.
It's a difference of choice in their mind. If a vegan is preachy about their choices, people are dicks in return, because they know it's objectively correct, but there's cognitive dissonance.
They don't wanna be forced to think about something where their position falls on the morally wrong side of the fence. We have all seen it happen:
Vegan: you should be vegan...
Not Vegan: MEAT!
The same happens when peoples world view is challenged through gender. Or sexuality.
Vegan: you should be vegan...
Not Vegan: MEAT!
The same happens when peoples world view is challenged through gender. Or sexuality.
It's not right, but it is how it is. People are dicks.
You obviously want to put a stop to it, but the personal cost could well be too great for yourself. That is understandable, and quite what you are willing to risk is ultimately your decision.
You obviously want to put a stop to it, but the personal cost could well be too great for yourself. That is understandable, and quite what you are willing to risk is ultimately your decision.
Personally, I would consider approaching the other trans person, & informing them of what has happened. Whilst it may be distressing for them, ultimately they should know the truth & be able to take action for themselves.
Your role should be supportive, but not too involved. Be discreet and don't put yourself at risk. It's definitely a difficult situation, but one that you should be able to negotiate.
Love, Aunt Tea 🫖
Love, Aunt Tea 🫖
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