💡Understand those 3 effects and observe them every time you feel anxious.
The new mindset to adopt form these insights is:
Your subconscious is an OPPONENT working against you - not out of malice, but out of habit.
We need to find ways to PERSUADE it otherwise.
⚡️Strategy #1: Ask for Feedback
This will help understand how good you are at your work already and dissolve the modesty bias.
✅Do's:
- Ask with confidence
- Be vulnerable
⛔️Don'ts:
- Self-deprecation
- Take personally - it's about your behaviour, not you.
2 examples:
✅Hi XYZ,
I was hoping to get your perspective on my presentation that I gave last week. I'm trying to improve my public speaking skills and I would appreciate any specific feedback you have on what I did well and what I could improve upon.
Thank you for your time and help.
⛔️Hi XYZ,
I'm really struggling with my presentation skills and I feel like I'm not very good at it. Do you think I did okay during my presentation last week?
I just really need some reassurance right now.
⚡️Strategy #2: Objectively Record Achievements
Your Confirmation Bias won't let you notice your achievements.
You have to trick it with the rational mind: Every week record WHAT you have done and review the previous week.
But, be creative about HOW you write it.
Example:
💡Imagine your project is a person and you are their caretaker. (How would they look btw? 🤩)
This person now has to write a positive review about you:
"Ilya really cleaned up the calendar this week."
"He read me 25 papers this week."
Emotionality persuades the subconscious
⚡️ Strategy #3: Debate with your thoughts
Do you believe everything people tell you or debate tooth and nail?
Your mind says "Not good enough" - get into a debate with it: "Why?"
Asking "Why?" 5x in a row, makes false beliefs melt into ludicrous nonsense - easier to let go of.
Summary
⚡️ Fight the Dunning-Kruger effect & Modesty Bias by asking for feedback in a constructive way.
⚡️Eliminate Confirmation Bias by recording achievements
⚡️Debate your thoughts like you would debate politics, expose their falsity.
Bonus strategy: "Fake it, before you make it".
Your actions define your feelings and vice versa. Everything is connected.
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A 3 week experiment: You read the same amount every day, but forget some %.
Forget only 30% daily → Loose ~88% of all information after 3 weeks.
😳 🫣 right!?
5% → Still loose 40% 🤬
3 takeaways & a solution in the 🧵
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1️⃣ The volume of memory is determined by your ability to remember
Look at the top 2 bars in the video. After a few days they reach a maximum.
Forgetting and learning, cancel each other out.
From all I could find out, this case is our average human. 🤷🏼
In more detail:
2️⃣ Remembering just a bit more, can pay off immensely
Compare the last two bars in the video. Going from remembering 85% to 95% every day (or forgetting 15% and 5% respectively), more than DOUBLES what you can learn after 21 days.
1. Create a note and name it in your usual citation style. e.g. "Connell 1964". Use a template where you include the DOI at the top. Here is an example
2. Scroll down to the bottom of the note and use the "Inset Attachment" command. (Hit ctrl/⌘ + P and type in "Insert Attachment")
Now select the file you have downloaded to embed it directly into the note.
Pro Tip: Assign a Hotkey to "Insert Attachment" to use it instantly.