금쪽이 연구원 부부 육아 보는데 데이터 수집, 분석 그리고 효율을 극대화 한 육아의 예시 같다
엄마가 출산휴가 3개월 - 아빠가 돌까지 육휴 - 엄마가 두돌까지 육휴 이렇게 쉬었고. 둘이 바톤터치식으로 하루를 분담해서 육아함. 누가 더 쉬고 싶음 어쩌냐고 물었더니 그런적 없다함ㅋㅋ
오후-저녁은 셋이서 보내긴 하는데 다른 가족들에 비해 셋이 함께 하는 시간은 부족함
그외에도 아이가 키나 몸무게가 또래 평균에 비해 작은 편이라 걱정돼서 부부가 하는 것들이 아쉽다고. 효율을 극대화 하는게 틀린건 아닌데 아쉽고 보완하면 더 좋을 거라 함
아이가 원래 분리 수면을 잘했다가 어느순간 수면에 문제가 생김. 계속 텐트 밖에서 엄마랑 자겠다고 했으나 엄빠는 들어주질 않았는데 이런식으로 엄마를 찾는건 생존본능이라 자연스러운거라고 함
그걸 들어주지 않아 감정을 부정받는 기분을 느꼈을 것이라고..
국가 차원에서의 출산율 제고 동의 정량적 목표를 위해서는 좋은 시도가 맞는데, 개인 단위에서 보면 매매혼 느낌을 지울수가 없어 쉬이 남에게 권하지는 못할 듯.
인종과 문화, 그리고 언어가 다른 사람과 가정을 꾸리는 건 상호간의 많은 노력이 수반된다는 걸 나도 어렴풋이나마 경험 해 봐서 아니까. 초반에 불꽃이 튀어도 유지가 쉽지 않은데 저런 시작으로 행복할 수 있을까.
2000년대 초반 농촌 총각과 외국인 여성 간의 국제결혼이 정부와 지자체의 지원 아래 장려되던 시절도 있었고, 나도 남자지만 보수적인 씹선비라 그런지 결혼의 본질을 훼손하고 여성을 상품화한다는 느낌때문에 원글과 같은 글은 잘 읽히지가 않는다.
어쨌든 통계로 보면, 중개업체를 통한 국제결혼은 평균 9.3일 만에 성사되며, 한국인 남성의 중개 수수료(약 1,372만 원)와 외국인 여성의 비용(약 69만 원)이 갭이 꽤 크니 일단 불평등한 거래(상호 합의에 의한 결혼이라 하더라도)는 맞다(2023년 여성가족부 조사자료).
1) Russian tank loss update, while most of our attention is on the stunning Ukraine offensive against Russia Oil refining; Russia continues to lose tank. Russia is still losing a lot of very old T-62 Tanks, but the proportion is down over the last 2 months.
2) this striking chart is perhaps the big news from this months Russi losses, it shows the ratio of Tanks to IFVs, we have gone form 2-3 IFV/APCs for each tank lost to less than half an IFV/APC to each tank lost.
3) That's because the number of IFV/APC losses, (yellow) has dropped dramatically. Transport losses however are up, and most others are about normal for this point in the month.
The math is embarrassing. But that’s not the story.
The story is why we spent a decade dismissing the one asset actually doing what we claimed we wanted.
Read on…
Let’s be honest about why we avoided gold.
Wasn’t about returns or liquidity or “dead capital locked away.” It was because gold belonged to them.
The aunties at weddings dripping in 22-karat everything. The maximalists who wear their net worth around their necks. Our mothers, opening those wooden jewelry boxes, checking on pieces they’ve never worn but will never sell.
Gold was the mother’s department. Feminine. Domestic. Old-world.
We wanted distance from that aesthetic. Wore minimal silver jewelry to weddings. Telegraphed: I’m not like those gold people.
While they were buying bangles, we were learning about expense ratios and rebalancing strategies and why passive beats active.
We had Zerodha accounts and opinions on the Fed. We were sophisticated. We were modern.
Turns out, they knew something we didn’t.
The finance types have grumbled for years about all that gold sitting around.
Indian households hold ₹72 lakh crores worth, allegedly locked away doing nothing productive. “Dead capital,” they call it.
All the money that could be flowing through the economy, funding startups, building infrastructure, creating jobs.
So you wanna move to 🇨🇦 Canada?
Here’s a break down of the Express Entry — the system that decides who gets permanent residency the fastest.
If you’re confused, don’t worry , I got you. Stick to the end ⤵️
1. First thing: Canada has two levels of immigration.
Federal programs + Provincial programs (PNPs).
Both can lead to PR.
But here’s the secret sauce, most people apply through Express Entry.
2. Quick myth buster:
Express Entry is NOT an immigration program.
It’s the system that IRCC uses to manage your PR application.
It ranks, filters, and selects skilled workers for residency.
3. Before 2015, getting PR could take YEARS
Now, with Express Entry, IRCC can process tens of thousands of applications quickly and efficiently.
Think of it as Canada’s immigration fast lane
4. You’ll hear this word a lot: CRS score.
It’s your immigration report card.
You get points for:
✅ Age
✅ Education
✅ Work experience
✅ English/French
✅ Adaptability
5. Max CRS = 1,200 points.
Half of that (600) comes from your skills and background.
The other half (600) comes if a province nominates you under a PNP.
That nomination? It’s basically a golden ticket.
Non solo carri armati, missili, droni, ma anche parole, immagini, significati. La Russia oggi combatte due guerre: una cinetica (visibile) e una cognitiva (invisibile). La seconda è quella che può distruggere l’UE.
Putin non vuole solo territori, vuole riscrivere il modo
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in cui l’Europa pensa. Imporre la sua verità.
Cambiare il significato di aggressione, legittimità, difesa. Sostituire i fatti con narrazioni, spostare le basi del discorso, manipolare il linguaggio stesso.
È così che si paralizza una società prima ancora che un esercito.
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Droni russi sorvolano la Polonia, la Romania, i Baltici. A volte cadono, a volte "spariscono dai radar". Mosca testa la risposta europea.
E più l’Europa esita, più la normalità si sposta.
1981, la Svezia (membro non della NATO e con un governo socialdemocratico favorevole
Google just cut off 90% of the internet from AI and no one is talking about it.
Last month (Sept 2025) Google quietly removed the num=100 search parameter, the trick that let you see 100 results on one page instead of the default 10. It sounds small, but it is not. You can no longer view 100 results at once. The new hard limit is 10.
Why this matters as people rely more and more on AI tools like ChatGPT for answers:
Most LLMs like OpenAI (ChatGPT), Anthropic, and Perplexity rely directly or indirectly on Google's indexed results to feed their retrieval systems and crawlers.
‼️By cutting off the long tail of results, Google just reduced what these systems can see by roughly 90%.
The web just got shallower not only for humans but for AI as well.
The impact was immediate. According to Search Engine Land, about 88% of websites saw a drop in impressions (9/2025).
Sites that ranked in positions 11 to 100 basically disappeared. Reddit, which often ranks deep in search results, saw its LLM citations drop sharply.
This is not just an SEO story. It is an AI supply chain issue.
Shocking details: In the case of US v. Ashley Tellis, FBI Special Agent Jeffrey Scott in his affidavit says that "probable cause" exists in support of the requested criminal complaint. The FBI has more information than is revealed in the affidavit. The investigation seems to have been on for at least a few months if not longer.
The affidavit says Tellis got top security clearance in 2001 because of his work in Dept of State and Dept of Defence. He signed an agreement on Aug. 2, 2001 "agreeing to comply with laws and regulations that prohibit the unauthorized disclosure of classified information."
His actions as detailed by the FBI show he broke the basic rules.
It seems Tellis was observed accessing classified material in both the State Dept. and the Defense Dept., making copies and taking them out of the buildings. For some reason, he was under video surveillance. Also seen having dinner with Chinese officials days after where his conversations were overheard. A manila envelope he carried to the dinner was not seen when he left the restaurant.
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The affidavit details Tellis' visits to the two buildings from Sept. 12, 2025 to read and print various classified documents. In one case, he accessed a document with U.S. Air Force tactics techniques and procedures.
"On Sept 25: "At approximately 8:19 p.m., TELLIS opened a PDF file from the desktop with a filename that referenced adversary fighter aircraft and the year 2024. The file opened as a document with a title that referred to U.S. Air Force tactics techniques and procedures. The document had a Department of the Air Force Seal at the top and banner markings at the top and bottom that read SECRET//FGI//RSEN/NOFORN//FISA.1 The document was 1,288 pages in length. TELLIS then opened the print window but canceled out without printing. TELLIS re-saved the document, changing the file name to “Econ Reform”."
After printing a huge number of pages, "At approximately 8:49 p.m., TELLIS printed pages 943-959. At approximately 8:51 p.m., TELLIS deleted the file titled “Econ Reform”."
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On the same day, "At approximately 8:52 p.m., TELLIS opened a PDF document classified SECRET//NOFORN. The file opened as a U.S. Air Force Weapons School document concerning military aircraft capabilities. He briefly scrolled through the document and then printed all 40 pages of the document. At approximately 8:53 p.m., TELLIS opened a PDF document classified SECRET//NOFORN. The file opened as another U.S. Air Force Weapons School document concerning military aircraft. TELLIS printed all 40 pages of the document."
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Delhi High Court to hear singer Kumar Sanu’s suit seeking protection of his personality rights.
Matter before Justice Manmeet Pritam Singh Arora.
#KumarSanu #Personalityrights #delhihighcourt
Hearing commences.
Advocate Sana Raees Khan appears for Sanu.
Court: Counsel for defendant 7 states that plaintiff has raised grievance regarding four profiles on Facebook and Instagram. He states list of 34 urls was provided. He says urls have become unavailable .
💢Questi vanno DETRATTI dal numero complessivo dei decessi forniti dalle autorità palestinesi.
Secondo l'ufficio statistico sono, a ieri: 67869.
Abbiamo quindi, con certezza più che ragionevole, secondo il Ministero della Salute: 55747 decessi imputabili a 2 anni di conflitto.
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Deriviamo i maschi adulti(>18y) che sono 67869-(18592+12400)= 24755 e da questi storniamo in via assolutamente conservativa(includo anche i minori) 6404(3202 x 2) maschi morti per cause naturali in questi 2 anni.
💢Ottengo 18351 maschi adulti circa, vittime di guerra.
בוקר אור מביהמ"ש המחוזי בת"א, כאן תתחדש הבוקר, למורת רוחו, עדותו של נתניהו במשפט האלפים. זהו היום ה-46 לעדותו, והיום ב-11 לחקירה הנגדית.
אמש דווח כי לשכת רה"מ ביקשה משרים וחברי כנסת מהליכוד להגיע הבוקר לביהמ"ש עם חידוש העדות.
הקרקס חזר לעיר.
כאן מתחיל שרשור דיווחים מהדיון👇🏼
הגיעו עד כה מלהקת המעודדות:
אסנת מארק, ניסיתי ואטורי ועידית סילמן שנכנסה לאזור הסטרילי לפי דיווחים חבריי העיתונאים
עוד נציג מצטרף ללהקת המעודדות של נתניהו באולם ביהמ"ש:
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מצטרף לואטורי ואסנת מאבק שבאולם וסילמן שבאזור הסטרילי כך אומרים
In preparation for my appearance at #BattleFest on Saturday, I've written a new article on Why is My Energy Bill So High? A thread 🧵(1/n)
First off, we have the highest industrial electricity prices in the developed world and the second highest domestic prices. Prices like this represent an existential threat to the economy (2/n)
Gas plays a part in setting the wholesale price of electricity, and the cost of gas used in electricity generation in 2024 was about £5.5bn (3/n)