Can we have a serious discussion about something?
The main reason I am hustling hard - apart from wanting to fly Emirates Business Class - is because I really want to travel the world with the #Caramellos

Manie asked me something the other day

"Mom, are all people that clean houses and schools brown like you?"
I told him that people that clean houses and schools can be any colour. I told him that in #NewYork he'd see people of all colours cleaning houses and schools

I need to work hard and take my kids to New York

They need to see something else ... something other than South Africa
But whoa

That question caught me by surprise.
I've been looking at the world through his eyes since that day. I totally get where it came from
Have you had the same question(s) from your kid(s)?

Please be honest and share

How did you respond? Did you respond?

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May 27, 2020
Do any of you remember the first time you answered your parents or caregivers back? Or stood up for yourself when you were being unfairly treated by them?

Remember the guts it took to do that? You didn't die. This is why you're reading this tweet

We're back there!
You are going to have to decide what #COVID19 stressors you are willing to deal with

If your Mom insists on going to church and you cannot guarantee that #COVID19 precautions are going to be adhered to, then you are going to have to put your foot down and ensure she doesn't go
If Mama gets SARS-CoV-2 and she has to be admitted to a #COVID19 ward, she will NOT be able to see you at all

The only people that she will see are healthcare workers in PPE

There'll be no brand new Woolies slippers or nighties, no Moosa's mink blankets, and no banana Mageu
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Mar 22, 2020
#COVID19 arrives in SA

Christian: "no COVID19 formed against me shall prosper"

Same Christian gets infected

Christian: "I am healed by His stripes"

Same Christian succumbs to the virus

Church: "God gives and God takes away"
Do you guys have any idea what's happening behind-the-scenes?

The medical fraternity is bracing itself for the worst

We don't know what to expect but we are trying to prepare

The whole world has been asked to #StaySafeStayHome but NO. Some Christians are special I guess ☹️
Today I call a spade a spade

Some Christians think that they can manipulate God and "make" Him do what they want Him to

I see it every single day of my working life with #HIV

It is sad

It is not too much to ask bazalwane

#StaySafeStayHome

We need to protect each other
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Dec 3, 2019
Effort is everything

There is something special about someone trying.

Maybe I asked for a pair of #Tiffany studs for Christmas, but I get a pair of #Swarovski earrings instead ----> I'd still be happy because of the effort that was made

A person that cares makes an effort...
Some of you are in relationships where most of the effort comes from you

If you don't call, there is no talking

If you don't message, there is no messaging

If you don't suggest an outing, there is no going out

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt!

It hurts!
In my case, because I was eager-to-please I would set the texture of the situationship by doing too much, too soon. (I have looked back on my life. I had situationships. Hard to admit but ya)

There is a "too much too soon"

The other person quickly figures you out and it's overs
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Nov 19, 2019
Today is #SharingIsCaring Day

Please share your factory shops and outlets and such stuff

We're all trying to save money and such information helps us

I'll start ☺️
Baby Boom Factory Shop
78 Loper Avenue
Spartan

#SharingIsCaring
If you love #WonderBra then you don't want to miss the #Playtex factory shop Christmas sale

They also have socks and undies

#SharingIsCaring
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Sep 16, 2019
I see the TL is ready for this thread

I'll do a short medical thread over the weekend
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• potent stimulant made from the leaves of the coca plant which is native to South America - mostly grown in Bolivia, Colombia, and Peru

Nicknames: coke, blow, snow, powder
What does #cocaine look like?

• fine, white powder

• snorted, rubbed on gums, dissolved and injected into the body
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I'm going to do a thread on medical aid and networks later

Hashtag #MedicalAidNetwork
#MedicalAidNetwork

If you choose a plan that locks you into a network, this is what it means

• you go to the doctors on the list from your medical aid

• you go to the hospitals on the list from your medical aid
#MedicalAidNetwork

If you choose to go to a doctor or a hospital that is not on your medical aid's network, you have to pay a levy

That amount that you pay is determined by your medical aid

The system is designed to deter you from going to a non-network doctor or hospital
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