I’m never distracted by a pretty face. Neither a member of the boob gang nor the bum club. But what I find irresistible is a beautiful mind. #Sapiosexual ⛱ 
Some deep conversations are better than sexual intercourse. Intimacy is like worship, we pray to God in worship to be one with him in our walk, this is why it is called a relationship. When you have a relationship with people, it goes deeper than physical touches.
There are people I commune with here that I have never met before yet we have done great things together for society. This is Relationship with no room for abuse or undue advantages. We keep each other in mind and check on one another. It cuts deep.
Marriage is not a prison. Body parts and looks won’t keep it together. There will always be new models and wild creatures willing to take you on a journey beyond your wildest imagination. But when the foundation is deeper than facade, nothing can rock that boat.
My closest friends had always been women because the first thing I learnt in martial arts was patience. Ability to listen for words unspoken. Attending, acknowledging, restating, reflecting, interpreting, summarizing and synthesizing, probing, giving feedback, supporting...
..Checking perceptions and being quiet. I can always tweet to release some of my thoughts to avoid talking to myself. But when in the company of people, it is an opportunity to unlearn just to relearn. It’s fun and you should give this a try. Women are magical beings.
You lose a lot when you objectify them and isolate them. The Are perceptive and intuitive. They are like fallow ground that needs tending. There will always be something to help unlock. Don’t get distracted, look deeper. You will always find a friend, partner or confidant.
