"Maximize DHV, minimize DLV" is the "buy low, sell high" of relationships for men
DHV (demonstrations of high value): Not reacting emotionally when she does, being strong, being attractive, being decisive, fixing things, doing what you say you're going to do...
DHV (demonstrations of high value): Not reacting emotionally when she does, being strong, being attractive, being decisive, fixing things, doing what you say you're going to do...
... attracting interest from other women, succeeding professionally, being in charge of your own time (not rushing), winning with money, picking your battles, winning contests of skill, being ambitious and motivated, being kind to the weak, not sweating the small stuff
DLV (demonstrations of low value): Being too emotional, physically weak, not being useful, not taking action and forcing her to instead, generating no interest from other women, not having $, being easily distracted, not being able to ignore meaningless demands on ur attention...
...being lazy, entitled, "all talk and no action", being too predictable, lacking nuance, staying in your comfort zone, complaining, talking about other people, crying (outside of death of a loved one), showing anxiety or fear, or rushing around all the time
Men often think once our commitment is given, we're done. We're all set. We're good.
No. She's always watching and judging you and the relationship.
DHVs = Safety
"I need to pay for this with sex and nurturing"
DLVs = Unsafe
"I need to withdraw and give him lots of tests"
No. She's always watching and judging you and the relationship.
DHVs = Safety
"I need to pay for this with sex and nurturing"
DLVs = Unsafe
"I need to withdraw and give him lots of tests"
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