What do you want from masculinity?

can be a more useful question than “what do you want from me?”

This forces them to define what they think they want, and hopefully be confronted with what is and is not a realistic expectation
As men we’re not defined by our gender or our hormones (we obv all contain both feminine and masculine), but we need to make our women aware of the trade offs involved when we occupying our natural pole

However, we also can’t expect her to grasp it (99% of women aren’t aware
of how their attraction actually works). So we have to master reading her emotions

What does she need right now (regardless of what she says she needs)?

Does she need my alpha or my beta?

Does she need a blast of Seratonin or Oxytocin?

Where is she at on her cycle?
Bitching about how hard it is to read, or to adjust our behavior (that’s what your girlfriends are for!) is pointless and a DLV

Ask for stronger shoulders and flex your feminine muscles of empathy and compassion, WITHOUT breaking frame.

This IS a masculine skill.

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So we are concerned with the root causes of things, and communication is our tool to find out what to DO

Women don't have this underlying belief. Life happens TO them...
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No? Well that's "abusive". You know that right?

I mean really, can do better?

How about this... I WILL PAY YOU to leave him.

Yeah. I will PAY you.
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