Why you SHOULDN'T move to Miami from an ex-Floridian:
1. No income tax may not mean you'll be paying less.
The government still needs to fund everything and they have to get the money from somewhere. Pay attention to sales and property tax rates. Also, lack of wealth distribution efforts puts extra pressure on the poor.
2. The weather is not friendly.
Be prepared for extreme humidity that will cause changes in your skin and hair. And the bugs that come with it. The seasons are hot and hotter. Tornados and hurricanes are not outside of the norm. My own home was destroyed by 2004 hurricanes.
3. Florida man is a thing.
Maybe it's the heat or something in the water but bizarre things happen in Florida. I don't know another state that has an entire subreddit dedicated to their crazy stories. Go check it out if you need entertainment.
Most importantly, don't move somewhere just because it went viral!
The best part about the expansion of remote work this year is you can finally choose where to live based on what makes you happy rather than where you "have" to be. Take advantage!
I've been tracking my emotions and a daily memory for 1,230 days in a row (over 3 years 🤯).
Here are 5 lessons learned:
1. The 1st year is the hardest
You're not yet seeing the benefits and you don't have enough data to make helpful life changes.
Once I started getting the 'On This Day' notifications, they acted as an automatic notification that also included why I was doing it. This is powerful
2. Having a daily reminder of where you were vs now is a huge motivator
On my lowest days, I would get a reminder of moments in the past where I was working hard to make it to exactly where I am now and that filled me with pride for how far I'd come.
The best quotes from the @Oprah interview in 'How to Lead' by David M. Rubenstein:
"Your legacy is every life that you've touched. We like to think that these great, philanthropic moments are the ones that leave the impact... but it's really what you do every day."
"Every now and then, somebody will say, 'Do you miss the show?' I don't miss the show. What I miss is the people, the camaraderie. What I did every day was have my own aftershow with the audience. I would talk to the audience... 30-40 minutes after every show...
It was my personal focus group. It's the reason why we were number one for twenty-five years."
The best quotes from the @richardbranson interview in 'How to Lead' by David M. Rubenstein:
"I never go into a venture with the idea of making a profit. If you can create the best in its field, generally speaking you'll find that you'll pay the bills and you'll make a profit."
"My first $200 that I got to start my business - my mum found a necklace and went to the police station and handed it in, and nobody claimed it. She managed to sell it for $200. That was the critical money that helped me start."
"The only reason we would go into a new sector is if we felt it was being badly run by other people. The reason we went into trains was that the government were running trains. British Rail had dilapidated trains, miserable service...
The best quotes from the @BillGates interview in 'How to Lead' by David M. Rubenstein:
On comparing building Microsoft to running the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation:
"They have more in common than people might expect: the idea that you find an innovation, really stick to it, build a team behind it, have some setbacks and successes - that theory of change...
I'd say they're equally difficult. You always know you could be doing better, that you should learn more, be building the team and thinking about things in a better way. You see the positive results, but you always want to do even better."
The best quotes from the @JeffBezos interview in 'How to Lead' by David M. Rubenstein:
"[Tom Brokaw] was interviewing all of us, and he finally turned to me and he said, 'Mr. Bezos, can you even spell profit?' I said, 'Sure. P-r-o-p-h-e-t.' And he burst out laughing."
"With your loved ones, you bet on them. You're not betting on the idea. You are betting on the person."
My #1 tip in feeling more like an adult and being less overwhelmed is taking a second to consider the future version of yourself.
What can you do in this current moment to prepare you to be your best self in the near future?
Some examples:
What would your Monday self appreciate if you did this weekend? It could be as simple as resting up now so you're ready to go then.
If you typically feel negative after seeing someone, can you prep something that would make things a little better to have in reach soon after?
If you get allergies a certain time of year, can you create an allergy bag containing everything you'll need? So once it hits, you only have to worry about feeling better?
Take these techniques but apply them to what's important in your life.