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1 Mar, 20 tweets, 17 min read
Thread on what #sexbuyers say about Asian women in the legal German sex industry. If we leave out the #sextrade from our critique of #racism, we will never dismantle it. #StopAsianHate. TW: Racism, misogyny, violence against women. (All images are stock photos) Image
„Basically I like the chinky eye type best. Love looking into her eyes while she’s blowing me." - German #sexbuyer. dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/11/19/i-l… #StopAsianHate Image
„I find fully shaven women quite boring, so I’m practically only bedding Asians at this point. Amongst the Asians, you find the highest number of all-natural pussies. Besides that, Asian women know how to spoil a man.“ - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/11/29/asi… #StopAsianHate Image
"I had the hottest and most honest sex with young girls, who had almost no experience in the sex trade. Young Spanish, Thai (but in Thailand), Polish, Chinese girls..." - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/12/15/i-h… #StopAsianHate Image
"Had this Chinese girl, Ying or something like that. 1,63 cm - not as small as advertised. Tits: 75B natural. Hair: Dark. Tattoos: None. Pubic hair: Black, slight trimming. French kissing not desired. Fucking was endured." - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/12/21/fre… #StopAsianHate Image
„My punting experience: 1990s to 1995 the Thaigirls were my favorites. [...] I’ve probably fucked every nationality out there, except maybe an Eskimo woman." - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/12/25/ive… #StopAsianHate Image
„I like Asians and their natural complexion, but I often get the impression that they’re in need of money. With foreign women, you can never be sure what kind of duress they are under and if maybe they’re even trafficked." - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/12/26/wit… #StopAsianHate Image
„I’m totally into Indians. Just went to see one and I’ve got to say, they are real spicy. Had me a girl in Delhi, as well, she was half-Afghan. Can anyone point me towards a brothel where Indians are available?“ - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2019/01/02/im-… #StopAsianHate Image
“I noticed that Asians lead a different life. Maybe it’s cause of their friendlier nature or maybe it’s buddha. When an Asian treats you nicely, she means it. A friendly punter is a ray of hope in their sad little lives.” - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2019/01/03/a-f… #StopAsianHate Image
„Lower-class Thai hookers just rip-off the European. But the normal Thai is all different! Thai sluts, with their belly showing, are for fucking, but should otherwise be avoided, while decent girls are worth the effort." - German #sextourist dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2019/01/01/tha… #StopAsianHate Image
"Had shitty experiences with Thai girls though… actually all girls with chinky eyes… (I’m not a right-winger). Well, maybe they just don’t like Latino dick." - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/12/29/lat… #StopAsianHate Image
„I visited this supposed Japanese kitten, who probably was a China-girl. Put it in though she didn't want it, she howled & wanted to turn away, but I pushed her down. I thought she might die during the fucking!" - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/12/28/i-g… #StopRape #StopAsianHate Image
„The Thai hooker doesn't suppress her natural horniness… even with an age difference of 30 years. They want ‚bang, bang‘ from me. Even if it’s all pretend, it's hot and there are no problems doing it without a condom.“ - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2019/01/01/tha… #StopAsianHate Image
"This [Chinese] girlie hadn't developed breasts yet and was hairless. Her hole was super tight, I hurt her. Was allowed to do anything I wanted. Creeped me out tough. Was on drugs. Disappeared after a few days." - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2019/06/14/hol… #StopRape #StopAsianHate Image
This thread could continue forever. This is a fraction of the specifically anti-Asian #racism and #misogyny leveled at migrant women in Germany or when German men go to purchase "sex" abroad. It's more than just words, it translates frequently into violence. #StopAsianHate
No, I don't know how to alter economies in women's home countries overnight, so poverty is eradicated. #Prostitution rarely offers a path out of poverty though (it's frequently intergenerational) and it can actively make it worse. Women deserve a path free of trauma and violence.
And for those who think these are online comments... the internet is mean, so what? These are men describing real encounters with real women. And if you ask #sexbuyers about "racial preferences" in studies you will get very similar answers which is disturbing but consistent.
#Colonialism at work here: Why do so many white Western men travel to countries like Thailand? Because of the infrastructure of easy fast access to vulnerable women established/expanded and never dismantled by Japanese, US, and other armies. #SexTourism is not charity, it's abuse
I don't understand why anyone opposed to exploitation lets themselves be swayed exclusively in the context of the #sextrade that this one industry that is clearly built on power imbalance and violence needs to stay to feed families essentially resigning to a hostage situation.
You can imagine a world without intimate partner violence, without rape, without child abuse, without child labor, without police violence (or just without law enforcement period), without prisons, without war, without climate disaster - but not without #prostitution & #porn.🤡

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3 Mar
Doubles standard at German Aids Aid who have worked alongside the pro prostitution lobby: They will promote condom use in a prostitution context in South Africa naming sex buyers as the cause of high infection rates but campaign against mandatory condom use in brothels in Germany
It boggles the mind and throws dirt on the painful history of the AIDS epidemic which was falsely labelled a "gay disease". If you want to destigmatize people living with HIV/AIDS and people in prostitution you wouldnt promote people playing Russian roulette with their health.
Fun fact: New Zealand has had rules about condom use for both parties in prostitution as well as brothels displaying signs promoting condom use since it introduced fully state sanctioned prostitution. Germany took 15 years to realize this was necessary after introducing its law.
Read 10 tweets
10 Feb
⚠️⚠️⚠️Trigger warning for what I'm about to say - please mute if you'd like to avoid hearing about extreme #violence #vaw and #misogyny on your timeline. ⚠️⚠️⚠️
When people advocate for legal #prostitution I think they have a much too vanilla view of what it is men pay women to do or endure. For all the times' abolitionists are called "prudes", it's really a lot of "sex pozzies" who don't understand the extent of what they're endorsing.
Yes, a lot are just your regular father-of-two cheating on his wife or angry over a divorce looking for a woman maybe his own age, but usually younger, for some usual oral on him, then vaginal in various positions, it's over when he orgasms. Bad enough, but it gets worse.
Read 16 tweets
9 Feb
If you look into the subject of #ComfortWomen you'll find victims who were kidnapped minors, others deceived yet others previously in prostitution knowing they'd be entering a brothel. This doesnt make the latter group immune to the extreme violence & exploitation that occurred.
On the one hand definitive victims of military sexual slavery are being labelled "sex workers" on the other hand the harmful myth is propagated that such brutal military brothels didnt particularly harm women who were "experienced hardened sex workers". That is dehumanizing.
The exact same dynamics play out in modern prostitution: Those groups are all in the modern brothels next to each other and all subjected to the same brutal market forces, at risk due to the presence of organized crime and facing danger and abuse by the same men who pay for it.
Read 5 tweets
21 Jan
Today for the 1st time ever heard a German pro-#prostitution activist (self-identified "hobbyist dominatrix") mention the New Zealand model and saying we should adopt it because it eliminates human trafficking. No, it only eliminates human trafficking convictions. Big difference.
German's rates of convicting pimps are already continuously decreasing since we introduced our own highly deregulated liberalized model back in 2002. We went from 151 convictions in 2000 to 32 in 2011. Bureau of Criminal Investigations says convictions decreased, rates did not.
Meanwhile, New Zealand was doing the following to make it appear as though it didn't have human trafficking: They didn't have a law against domestic sex trafficking, which helped to ignore the fact that 1/3 of prostituted women were once commercially exploited girls.
Read 14 tweets
12 Jan
New research on the history of legal #prostitution in Germany focussing on the murders of women in the sex trade by @manuelaschon and Anna Hoheide. I am proud to have helped with translating this work that shines a light into the darkest corners. digitalcommons.uri.edu/dignity/vol6/i…
Key findings on the murders of women in German legal #prostitution: The daily fear of violence, potentially lethal, remains real for women, despite less fear of arrest by police. The primary perpetrators are sex buyers. The state does not care to collect official statistics.
Critics will claim the German law is a form of legalization (tight regulation forcing some women into illegal status) while one should support New Zealand's decriminalization (minimizing laws specific to prostitution). False distinction: German law on the left, NZ on the right...
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11 Jan
This is an old article, but nonetheless: The New Zealand Prostitute's Collective handed out flyers to Chinese students normalizing prostitution, motivating some to enter the industry, which they are actually not legally allowed on a student visa! Christ... nzherald.co.nz/nz/chinese-stu…
I personally can't really fathom how this pamphlet motivated anyone to enter the sex trade because it is victim-blaming garbage and at the same time skirts around the reality of the industry so much you don't even know what it is really trying to tell you... Image
It must have preyed on the poverty of many students, including exchange students struggling to get a job while studying abroad. This is absolutely a vulnerable situation & I am disgusted the NZPC told them this hot garbage instead of warning them they can't legally do this in NZ!
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