On reading this my thoughts:
-not a primary care field
-two-specialist couple
-focus in procedures and lucrative call, not humans being treated
-these “options” possible if one has chronic illness, elder care, etc
-derisive towards colleagues
-no interest in equity
It’s great that doctor made it work to retire at 43 and have gotten the math right all along. If one is going to judge colleagues, though, be ready for the reverse. We have a rising maternal mortality rate and increasing disparity. IUDs are an important part of reducing that, yes
Even if we stick just to ob/gyn field: some may wish to not only be the “IUD queen” (birth control is SUPER important - not at all discounting it), what about the ob/gyn who chooses to live in NYC and focus in whole person care for WOC who do give birth?
As a former administrator, if I read this piece with that hat on, I would look at the ob/gyn salary, the focus in inserting IUDs (low risk, high volume), and wonder why it needs to be a residency trained physician at all. There are many clinician types who can do procedures.
When physicians share their fiscal job motives & how they do the math on their finances, don’t be surprised when administrators do the same. That is not big bad administration, that is fiscal pragmatism and improved operating budget. Personnel/staff is often biggest budget item.
This might make some people upset, of course, but it is a reality.
I am not vilifying money. We need to talk about it more openly.
You need money to live. Fiscal literacy is sorely lacking among many physicians on their own finances or healthcare finances.
I would just say that when you colleagues make different choices, say work in an inner city, dealt with complex SDoH, take on the risk of complicated pregnancies, that is not them being dumb. Some people choose mission and service. Often is at the expense of lifestyle or 💰.
No one is obligated to use the full scope of training either. But if clearly staying limited to low risk procedures, that is ripe for replacement.
It makes sense to front load call and do less in middle age or later. Though it does affect the group, yes, to drop call entirely.
I see a lot of MDs upset about various clinician types in healthcare, invoking the profession at risk.
This particular article is one that would make it very hard to justify that narrative.
Personal finance savviness has been lacking in my own career, I admit.
I had a peer point out while I was volunteering I could be moonlighting.
Although as a pediatrician in Boston my compensation was 1/2 to 1/4 of other specialties. Plus, I like addressing inequity.
What is the profession we seek to honor or defend about?
I don’t think we should force values on anyone else. But these are things asked in med school applications and residency applications that are gatekeeping steps to who are our peers.
Some recently did not match.
As a former FQHC CMO where a recruiting draw was loan repayment for primary care docs needing to pay NYC rents & cost of living and taxes, I think about how we make it financially feasible to acquire the same med school debt and then do work in primary care or inner city.
We also need to stop with the idea that service means wearing a horsehair shirt and being derisive of making money. We need to judge less cuz that only sets us up for this. Healthcare is a business. It is 1/5th of our GDP. “Shoulds” do not pay bills.
America or UK there are disparities among clinicians. This is not doctor vs nurse but often by race. BIPOC or BAME die at higher rates. No, not their fault or their health. PPE. (As did health - stress can reduce health, btw)
So my first response to the article in the first tweet was to dismiss. Except there *is* a real issue of finance on a personal & systems level. We have to face it head on, transparently, as an industry and as professions. And let’s stop using finances as a way to judge each other
The U.S. government is responsible for the this vaccine hesitancy from these past ethics violations that abused the hard work of humanity public health workers who had painstakingly gained trust over years. Trust takes time to rebuild.
@rezaaslan Honestly, we are past a point of thinking all brown is the same. There is tremendous diversity in South Asia.
The accent. The way of talking. The head movements. None of it is remotely Afghan. There was a way to actually represent Afghan or Pathan culture beyond casting.
@rezaaslan Asking the people whose identity is being used to either play the part or at least inform the character development is essential to moving past caricatures to representation.
As for brown savior: Mammies often “saved” their mistresses/masters.
@rezaaslan Key part of the article on way Mammies are portrayed.
I’d like to see how this sitcom would be different.
I get the argument that it is important to get sympathetic/likable Muslim characters on the screen. Maybe this is the extent of progress possible.
But was it?
Am grateful my #endometriosis and #fibroids only affects me severely one day a cycle and is not severe every cycle. Still that one day can make me unable to get out of bed or sit up without passing out. Severity worsens with stress.
Today I feel have my life back. Thank God.
Mind you, my definition of severe is “I pass out from pain.” I don’t know if it is really a good thing I self suppress so well that I don’t even feel or react to pain until it threatens my ability to stay conscious. I don’t glamorize “grit” that is a lack of self compassion
It is an accommodation to the pathology in the world we live that was apparent with the events this week. 6 Asian women killed but the compassion was for the killer who “had a bad day” by authorities while the women were mislabeled as sex workers to validate their deaths.
Sometimes you need a physician-child to physician-child call. “I hope you know none of this is your fault.”
Thankfully I have been really effective at not going down dark paths of coulda shoulda woulda.
I helped Daddy stay in right frame of mind.
We live in shaming society.
Still, it meant a lot that someone I went to school with called with that, likely sharing what he knows from loss of a parent as well.
The people who have lost a parent get it.
I can see why there are grief circles.
Some people get it.
People outside of clinical medicine (or even in it) also can assume doctors have unending power, privilege, access.
One auntie “with your girls as daughters I assumed she had the best of everything.” She likely did not hear what she said to a grieving daughter. Implies failure.
I’m starting to understand how some people avoid thinking about hard things like economic exploitation, racism, medical harm, etc.
I know there is a torture room of psychological pain I could enter of coulda shoulda woulda on Mom.
“It was God’s will” keeps that door closed.
My understanding of religion, though, is that my duty and purpose is to fight the “greater jihad”, a daily struggle with actions and words, to fight injustice regardless of how unlikely it seems to be able to make progress.
Fighting with weapons is the lesser struggle/jihad.
Another way to kill off the thinkers and philosophers who struggle with ethical dilemmas is to sell arms to the bullies who just want to promote a draconian and concrete approach to rigid rules on behaviors and rituals.