1. Context of our people 2. What we can all do 3. Tips for leaders 4. Convergence with alcohol 5. Neurodiversity 6. The most precious thing: hope.
Let’s thread
Context.
We tend to focus on location, family etc
It’s also good to understand factors from growing up, family, poverty,
exposure to trauma/grief/violence/drug/alcohol misuse,
education completion/setting/needs.
Normalise getting into that detail and what to draw from it.
2. We all have a role in promoting positive approaches and engagement with #MentalHealthAwareness
- talk about mood
- take time off/out and say so
- create psychological safety to engage & declare challenges
- avoid slurs on mental health creeping in
- use Op SMART tools
BE KIND
3. Leaders.
We have MASSIVE daily impact on #mentalhealth + and -
- Are you creating unnecessary work based stress?
- Understand cumulative work load, be curious about deadlines and use of time in teams.
- Time spent on well-being is not skiving.
Get a reverse mentor.
3.1. Leaders
Army life is inherently stressful - so where is that displacing or flowing to?
What are people doing to cope?
What are YOU providing to support others?
What ecosystem is there in your Unit? In-person, text etc.
Who are your empathetic leaders?
Do the estimate
4. Alcohol.
The only drug you have to apologise for - for giving up.
Booze and negative thoughts are the worst cocktail around depression, anxiety, coping with stress and sleep.
The statistics on alcohol related deaths are brutal (20yr high)
Flick through suicide facts below
Preventing convergence of #mentalhealth and alcohol abuse is a key chain to break.
Be curious.
It’s happening in isolation, has been a coping mechanism in lockdown and will accelerate (my view) as we unlock through the summer.
Lift some rocks. See what you find.
5. Neurodiversity.
ND is the notion that all brains are different and unique.
We all interact, react, process and relate to information and people in unique ways.
ND has HUGE strengths and benefits but co-morbidities can include depression, low self worth and addiction.
5.1. Who are your ND personnel?
Good question.
Truth is we don’t really know (undiagnosed)
Goes back to understanding context, but also stress both at home and work.
Signpost people.
If you have a ND child parenting is intensely rewarding but also hard.
Very hard. Trust me.
6. Hope.
This shouldn’t be the misery Olympics.
Not is life and being in the Army “something to get through”.
Many treatments for trauma and #mentalhealth focus on recognising and reprocessing negative thoughts and emotions.
Hope is a vital motivator.
We tend to focus on the now - and the imminent - almost to the extreme in the Army.
And it’s constant. Tomorrow becomes the next now & so on.
We need a better sense of past - present - and future and where some of our experiences belong.
There has to be a future; a decent one.
Now I’m also a realist/pragmatist and people will say trite phrases of:
“hope isn’t a plan”
“Hope isn’t a principle of war”
(We’re not actually in a war BTW)
But having that notion of past-present-future. How to plan and navigate through them is vital to well-being.
Ok here we go the Defence Command Paper and the Army.
Here’s my own take which obviously doesn’t reflect policy or party lines etc.
Not sure how long this will be - but let’s go!
The IR (if you bleach out the politics and other bits) is a fantastic piece of work. It paints a bold vision of how to harness levers of National Power to deliver policy and strategic outcomes. Building on the work of fusion doctrine and breaks down barriers between Ministries.
The separation of National and Defence Strategy is, for me, a good thing. No more NSS and SDSR. Linked but not the same.
A blessing and a risk Defence more able to write how it will meet its objectives but crucially more accountable. Key will be freedoms, or not, from HMT.
Here are the top recommendations from the @CIPD report on how to support colleagues around the issues of increased drug and alcohol use through lockdown and the pandemic.
1. We currently have a zero tolerance policy on drugs and we’ve made big strides in modernising our approach to alcohol - but we can’t be complacent @4Alpha1 is here to help with signposting and support.
2. Prevention. We can’t view alcohol in isolation. It’s linked to depression, aggression, control, moderation, stress and wellbeing. “Drinking to cope” as @patsy_irizar highlighted.
One of my soldiers is leaving #ATDU this week on promotion. We talked a lot on mental health and #BlackLivesMatter
He is of a mixed race background and he made the following observations which are worth noting. (THREAD)
He grew up in an area of depravation in the 1980s. His mother and father suffered horrific racism from both black and white communities for the choice they made for love.
He attended school and “wasn’t black enough for those lads - and not white enough for the others”.
He lost his mother at a young age. Dad remarried to a South Asian family and the family now has proud religious and cultural heritage from that region.
An incredible journey.
He offered the following thoughts about Army life.
Today I was fortunate enough to sit on a board at APC Glasgow and thought I’d offer some views to recent twitter convos on the subject.
1. Board Composition. 1 x LE Colonel, 1 x WO1, 1 x non-RAC Major, 1 x Regtl CO 1 x E1 CO (that’s me) 2 x observers (Capt DE and Capt LE - RCMO). So what? This was a lot more diverse than I expected and made for a good mix of experience, experiences, perspectives and challenge!
2. Rigour. Contrary to ‘30 secs to scan’ we had a lot longer - probably 3/4 mins per book. Each book contains SJARS, career, quals and education summary. 3/4 mins is actually quite a lot of time. Especially when the board prep was so professional. Easy to read, well laid out etc.
‘Moderation’. What does that mean to you? How do you define it? Are you comfortable with how much, how often and the state you get in when you drink? If you’re curious why not read on. I’ll relate where I started from. #AlcoholAwarenessWeek#MentalHealthAwareness
I’m going to cover this in ‘5 Ages of Man’. That’s because I look back and think some of this is tied up in quite a toxic version of ‘masculinity’. It’s important to note that like many issues for me this was pre-mortem to the Army.
The Teenager. Like many my age I started drinking at about 14. Pubs, going out and at home. ‘Moderation’ in my house was a relative term and I look back now and alcohol was a problem from here on in. Lack of boundaries, lack of realisation and I built a BIG tolerance.