Someone tweeted about #dating and reminded me of an utterly weird experience I had several years ago.
I talked to someone who just... didn't make sense.
I talked to someone who just... didn't make sense.
I would say "give me the confidence of a first year med student who doesn't think anything exists if they can't picture it in their minds" but this was "break from reality" levels of confusion.
Honestly this is why a lot of people screw up #dating.
You think you know what you want and have an idea of how to attain it, but at 22, without any world experience, you are likely to have a mashup of your parents' hopes and the esoteric lore you cribbed from "Sex in the City."
You think you know what you want and have an idea of how to attain it, but at 22, without any world experience, you are likely to have a mashup of your parents' hopes and the esoteric lore you cribbed from "Sex in the City."
"But Mori I am in my early 20s and had to study all the time to enter med school/grad school/my chosen profession! What am I supposed to do?"
Not assume you know it all. That's really the best advice I can give.
Not assume you know it all. That's really the best advice I can give.
I'm guilty of this myself in human relationships; I turned down the opportunity to connect with some people back when I was convinced I would work in a lab my whole life. 10 years later I entered #biz and regretted it.
You need to leave yourself open to possibility.
#mindset
You need to leave yourself open to possibility.
#mindset
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