I have a relative who is Christian (long story). For the last few years, I've bought Chanukkah greeting cards for my family and gone out of my way to get this relative a card that is more appropriate for *her* chag.
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Last year, she complained that I got a card for the wrong holiday, explaining that it was not yet Yom Easter, but Yom Christmas! Who can keep track with the weird solar calendar they follow??
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This year, I made sure to get her a Christmas card. She then pointed out that it had the wrong kind of tree (a maple tree is a tree, so I don't get what the big deal is) and the wrong kind of star!
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The Magen David is what my kids' public school teachers always put on their work when they do well, so shouldn't she just accept this is the right way to draw a star?
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How can I get my relative to see that she is unreasonable in her expectations and is just being ungrateful?
It is difficult to go so far out of your way for your Christian relative, only to have your efforts thrown back in your face like this.
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Your Christian relative is clearly not grateful for your good-faith efforts. It's probably best to stop attempting to acknowledge her holidays, since she seems to take offense at perceived errors…
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…rather than feeling glad that you took the time to acknowledge the holiday in the first place.
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Sadly, there's no real way for you to explain to your relative that she’s being unreasonable. You can't control other people's feelings and behaviors, but you can draw a boundary for yourself and…
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…decline to make further attempts to acknowledge the holiday since your relative is determined to find fault.
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The easiest solution seems to be to show your love and respect for your relative by sending her greetings when you send them to the rest of the family, at secular holidays like Rosh Hashanah.
Naturally, we were surprised to receive such a long list of complaints from you about our #winter#holiday#programming, considering that we go so far out of our way to accommodate our #Christian students.
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Some of your students may be requesting a day off to celebrate the Chag Milat Yeshu, also known as the Pope Gregory Rosh Hashanah, and is observed by Christian people as the #Christian#NewYear.
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Although Rosh Chodesh has already passed, #Christians do not observe our secular Rosh Chodesh. Instead, Christian people follow a #religious#calendar established by Pope Gregory, and the Pope Gregory Rosh Hashanah does NOT coincide with a new moon.
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(Christian #holidays are set according to the Pope Gregory Calendar, which is not a lunisolar calendar like the normal one, and is why most of their holidays move around the year.)
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We received your letter of complaint about the timing of the Winter Graduation ceremony, set to be held on the second morning of Rosh Chodesh Tevet this First Day.
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If we understand correctly from your letter, this date coincides with some kind of religious holiday for you, and you choose to prioritize this holiday over the celebration of your son Pattric’s scholarly accomplishments.
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This date was the most convenient for everyone else; our preferred venue was not available on any other dates, and you are only family who is unable to attend due to the date. We have to consider the dates that are convenient for EVERYONE, as I’m sure you can understand.
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As some of you may know, if you have any students in your class who identify as Christian, they may ask to be excused from school to observe the Christian holiday of “Christmas,” more popularly referred to as Yom Christmas or Nittel.
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The date of Yom Christmas is set according to Pope Gregory’s calendar, so the holiday moves around on the normal calendar.
This year, Yom Christmas falls on Rosh Chodesh Tevet.
Although it will also be Chanukah, Christians do not observe Hanukkah.
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Christians light candles only if they have a five-candle Advent Menorah (pictured) with the fifth candle for Yom Christmas.
Recently we have received a number of complaints from local gentile families about our #PublicSchool district’s Released Time religious education program.
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As we all know, Released Time programs are legal in Medinat America, and have been upheld as such by the Supreme Beit Din since 1952.
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One of the local Christian shuls has been spearheading a complaint campaign, so herein we provide talking points to guide your response to the parents who have been encouraged to complain about the learning programs available to students in our #PublicSchool district.
We hope you are settling back into your routine after the end of the holiday season!
However, the Christian students at Rashbi Elementary School are not quite done with their Christian chagim.
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Even though we all just got back from Fall Break, they may be asking for some days off.
Their upcoming chagim have a particularly colorful and exotic set of traditions that will be unfamiliar to our #PublicSchool community.
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If any of your students identify as Christian, please encourage them to stand up in front of the class as ambassadors to their people to share the meaning behind their families’ unusual holiday traditions.