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Ryan Cady @rycady
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Look, I really *do* get it. I’ve been where a lot these fucks are at. I spent most of my time in college as a meritocracy-spouting, anti-“sjw” libertarian. I traveled in MRA circles for awhile, thought Milo was so clever, ate it all up.
But I was WRONG. It was all bullshit.
I get how weirdly seductive the straw man arguments can be. How easy it is to get sucked into cherry picked logic and inherited rage and to intentionally take intent out of context, hunt for something to be angry about, to attack, under the guise of “calm” smug superiority
It’s so easy to say “I’m not violent. I never would hurt anyone. I’m the calm logical emotionless one and I’m RIGHT” all while your idols and followers stoke the fires of extremity and exclusion, ignoring the consequences of your position, the system we live in, all of it
But it’s all bullshit. It’s false disenfranchisement in the wake of refusing to have empathy for other people. It’s the piled on, misplaced rage of old powers injected into people too safe or young or privileged to understand the awful pain of others
Have some empathy. I mean it. Take a breath. Understand WHY things are the way they are, and why the people you’re fighting are so emotionally invested, so hurt, so determined.
It’s easy to be willfully ignorant. Please, don’t fall for that trap.
Have some empathy. Listen. Put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Try to see the bigger picture.
My only “regret” about this tweet is using “fucks” to describe the people attacking friends, vandalizing a retailer’s - but not being specific enough about that.
I don’t think you’re a fuck if we disagree, FWIW. You’re a fuck if that disagreement leads to harassment or worse.
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