Reminder to certain M/M authors: You can be not-straight and still harm other not-straight people with your work.
If gay/bi/pan men are telling you that your depiction of gay/bi/pan men is harmful, they're not being "misogynistic" or "anti-woman." They're telling you that you're harming them. And a lot of you are.
I might get hate for this, but I agree with the gay/bi/pan men who have said MPREG written about two cis males is enforcing heteronormative relationship standards onto gay characters. It doesn't matter if you're a bisexual woman or a lesbian writing it, you're still causing harm.
"I am oppressed by the straights, therefore I am allowed to oppress others in the same way the straights oppress me" is not a valid defense. Please see this blog post: fefeeleyjr.com/books/m-m-roma…
This author is getting attacked by women, cis, straight or queer, accused of being a misogynist, jealous of women writing in the genre, gatekeeping who can write M/M, all sorts of stuff. And it's infuriating. And to see queer women engaging in that behavior is infuriating.
