We had to book our wedding without knowing if my partner would be permitted the visa to attend. To show proof of intent.
And once she had permission to come over, marry me? We had to do it again. This time for the right to remain here. And then again 30 months later. And soon, again, 30 months after that.
All around there are families. Kids are crying, grandparents are exhausted. All stressed to the eyes.
Have you tried to prove love? Try being introverted and finding photos of you as a couple with other people.
It’s still there, and so is the attitude.