If a companion hasn’t responded to your inquiry, I promise there is a good reason. This could include, but is not limited to:
- you didn’t adhere to their clearly stated requirements
- you don’t meet an unspoken requirement
- you’ve been polite, but failed to provide the requested info
- you’ve asked a question that is answered on their website/ad
- you don’t seem like a good fit, for reasons vague or specific
- the pro is not available on the date/in the city you request
- you think you’ve provided necessary screening info, but they still determine you’re not the right fit
- they’re sick/taking a break/dealing with personal issues
- they’re not interested
- they don’t feel like it
- your email got buried among more pressing or promising emails in their inbox
- you called or texted from a blocked number
- they don’t have time to answer you
- they’re busy painting their nails or playing with their dog
- they still don’t feel like it
- you’ve used language the pro deems explicit, or that otherwise makes them feel unsafe
- you appear to be a time waster or cop
- you did everything right, but they have an inexplicable bad vibe about you
- still don’t feel like it
Any prospective client who does not hear back from a provider will save themselves a lot of stress by adopting a similar attitude and moving onto the next thing.