1. Never ask your friends for financial help. They will look down on you.
2. No matter how bad things are, always look good. Do not let anyone see you sweat.
3. Do not spread your problems around. People will avoid you.
Ask for advice.
Don't ask for money.
Your dignity and respect are intact.
@akinalabi is my friend.
Never asked him for $1.
We have done some business in the past that brought me some money.
He can call me to do some business where I will deliver value and get money. So there is mutual respect and dignity.
It was Joseph's brothers who wanted to destroy him. Friends could have done worse.
Maintain your dignity, self respect and honour.
Don't ask for money.
They don't.
Your financial problems are your responsibility.
They owe you friendship, not money.
There is a universe of difference between the two.
There's a guy who has Dangote's number. They became friends through family connection.
He has NEVER asked Dangote for $1. Even when he is in financial doldrums.
You know what?
Dangote introduces him to great people in society who open doors for him.
A millionaire fell into financial difficulty. He didn't ask anybody for help. He didn't declare bankruptcy to protect his personal assets.
He started SELLING his property to pay back debts.
Don't beg for money.
Ask for advice.
Friends will respect you.
Please be honest.
You cannot use friendship to compel or manipulate them to give you money.
Money is NOT a reward for friendship.
Money is a reward for value.
Do I need more money?
Yes.
Never asked for $1.
Friendship, respect, honour intact.