It’s rewarding to tell “vulnerable” stories where everything works out for the best, and the moral is that you can overcome.
But telling stories mid-flight, when you have no clue how or whether it’s going to work out, entails actual risk.
People can get extremely heavy publicly so long as the moral of the story is they overcame the issue and are now stronger than ever before. (Usually this requires some obvious proof.)
But even minor situations, if unresolved, feel shameful to share
But as Erik said, there isn’t really a space for that in modernity. We have no priest or confessional booth.