Thread by @AishaYesufu

The moment you are in public space you must learn to not take personal what people say or do to you. Some it might be because of the misinformation they have, some it might be because they want to protect their interests and some it is plain childishness and silliness.

There are things that people will say to me and have said that I wave off. Why?! Because I chose to be in the public space and that made me to take responsibility for whatever is thrown at me.

If I hadn't come to the public space and they did some of the things they do, I probably will break the person's every single bone🤣🤣
Come to my house to talk to me anyhow, you go just see anyhow! The moment I decided to put myself in the public domain I accepted your anyhowness

There are people we are friends today that during last administration called me a prostitute and said APC men were passing me round. It was based on their sycophancy and need to defend government. Tomorrow will they go back to their ways and call me prostitute? Strong probability

There are some who said I was the best thing after jollof rice during GEJ who call me prostitute today. Can we be friends again when they no longer have need to defend government? Absolutely yes!
I know who I am. They are still finding themselves.

You must learn to be true to yourself and not allow yourself to be emotionally blackmailed or guilt tripped.
If you are going to help anyone, DO!
If you don't want to help anyone, DON'T!
You do not owe anyone any explanation!

What is most important is not what is done to you. What is most important is what you do to yourself and to others. You are the only person you have to tolerate 24/7. You must like what you do and be at peace with yourself.