First, Why, do you want to manipulate people? Don't answer that loudly. Just read, on.
Manipulation is to influence people skillfully to your advantage, in a unfair manner. Almost a con game. All con artists have mastered the art of manipulation.
1. Always seek to control the environment and situation, create a situation where your mark will approach you. By the target approaching you, they have subconsciously convinced themselves of your authenticity.. al that is left, is the proof that you are valuable.
2. Offer value, If it's a dating situation, show emotion and value, have a small talk with the waiter, joke with the valet, business wise, offer something valuable to your target to sell them.
3. Your body language is everything, be comfortable, don't lean, dont pace, don't sound uncertain. Own your space and appear Confident.
4. Leverage, since you have established Confidence, the target is almost trusting you. Just a small nudge to push them over to your control. Make a bet, leverage something while they watch. Since you control the environment, you can control the results. On a dating scene........
4.1 , ask for a exotic dish you have already had before but you are sure they haven't, stake the bet on it's tastes, since you know it tastes good, you buy their trust and they can allow you to make other decisions with full trust, on a business scene, place your bet on winning..
4.2 horses, it doesn't matter if you fed the horse nothing but nitro a day before, if the bet pan out infront of their eyes, they trust you and let you make decisions.
5. Timing is all that matters, when the time is right for whatever you want grab it, if the time is not right, continue offering pro bono help.
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