Right now in Iowa, there’s a coach torn up about the conversation he has to have to have with a girl on his team. Maybe he emails her parents first to talk about how. He asks if the athlete has access to mental health care, if they have a safety plan for their daughter. 1/
Together they work out a plan to sit her down and explain to this 7th grader why she is off the team and why even mom & dad can’t fix it. They know she will cry. They know she will be angry. What they hope is that she doesn’t sink into depression or harm herself. 2/
The coach thinks about the day she joined the team. Awkward and brave. Inexperienced but a fast learner. He admits to himself that he wasn’t sure at first how she’d fit in but that her own teammates taught him more about acceptance than he’d learned in 100 hours of training. 3/
They cheered for her. They pushed her. They laughed with her and helped her fix her hair just right. And that’s the other conversation he’s dreading. Telling her teammates. Fifteen pairs of eyes on him. Watching how he responds. Looking for understanding and reassurance. 4/
I don’t know how many trans girls are playing sports in Iowa now or how many planned to go out for track, golf, softball or fall sports but each one deserved better than this from our state. I’m heartbroken for conversations about to happen with athletes, families, coaches. 5/
Im standing in solidarity with every trans Iowan, their families, their teammates and their coaches. Sending my love & support 🏳️‍⚧️

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Mar 2
Hello to all my new followers after last night’s #SOTU - I’m the founder of @OpePac (give them a follow too!), a 2018 candidate for Iowa Senate, and a recent graduate of the @DrakeUniversity Master of Arts in Communication & Public Policy. Life long Iowan and mom of three. 1/
I tweet a lot about #iowa politics, #education #mentalhealth #LGBTQ #metoo and #GunViolencePrevention I’m a lifelong Iowan and I’m devastated by what @KimReynoldsIA has done to our state.
Give me a shout out and let me know where you’re from! I’m glad you’re here! 3/
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Feb 16
Did you know that Ohio created a school voucher program in 2014? Let's look at some facts about their program as #ialegis considers the @KimReynoldsIA voucher plan for #Iowa students 1/15
But first, did you know that school vouchers are not a concept that was created by educational experts; not proposed by parents; not even an idea politicians came up with. Nope. Vouchers are the brainchild of Milton Friedman, a radical free-market economist. 2/15
Friedman wrote an essay in 1955 entitled "The Role of Government in Education." He starts his essay by saying “I deplore segregation and racial prejudice.” (You know, if you have to say 'I'm not a racist, but...' you've already given yourself away, Milt.) 3/15
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Jan 3
ICYMI from my earlier Tweet - I have #Covid_19 - so do my two youngest children & husband. We didn't realize our middle kid was symptomatic when we went to Xmas at my in-laws. 12 of the 16 folks at our family get-together have now tested positive and/or are having symptoms.
I share this as a warning to others. Like @modestholdings we were extremely careful. We took all the precautions. We are all fully vaxed and boosted. We wear KN95s. We rarely do in-person events. Our family's only major exposure risk is via our kids at school.
But #Omicron is next-level contagious. By the time you spike a fever, you have already been contagious for 2-3 days. The R-naught for this variant is 10-12. (Each infected person will infect 10-12 others on average).
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Jan 9, 2021
I just want to say that those of us who have been working in gun violence prevention are not at all surprised by what happened this week. We have targeted, harassed & threatened by these kinds people for years. 1/@MomsDemand @Everytown @bradybuzz @GabbyGiffords @sandyhook
Many of us have reached out to @Twitter @Facebook @Google and law enforcement because they have threatened us with rape, home invasion, murdering our kids and pets and extended family members. @shannonrwatts has been especially targeted 2/
For those who are survivors of gun violence like @kharyp and @lucymcbath and the families of Sandy Hook, the harassment is particularly grotesque. Claiming loved ones never existed, blaming them for their own deaths.
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Dec 17, 2018
Over the weekend @desmoinesdem published my article about reaching #rural voters and it spurred some outstanding discussions. One thing I hear a lot from people who did not grow up in #Iowa is their discomfort with Iowans’ emphasis on how long their families have lived in Iowa.
They often see this as Iowans setting narrow parameters on who is a “real Iowan” and who is not. This is not the case at all and glosses over a fundamental misunderstanding of why my family’s Iowa longevity matters.
In the last 100 years rural America lost over 50% of its population. During the Great Depression, 1/3 of all farmers lost their farms. Most families never returned.
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